Married, no kids, low sex drive...and I'm only 22?!
Question: I've had my share of parnters, and I've never had an orgasm. I tried masturbating once and felt like I was gonna have one but it just didn't happen. Husband and I have been married 3 months, I started birth control about a month ago, and it's like he is always in the mood but I never am. Sex feels like a chore now because I only do it to please my husband - i don't want him to suffer cuz I can't get in the mood. My husband pleases me, I find him very attractive, we have no problems in our relationship, but I am just NEVER in the mood to have sex! could something be wrong??
Answers: I've had my share of parnters, and I've never had an orgasm. I tried masturbating once and felt like I was gonna have one but it just didn't happen. Husband and I have been married 3 months, I started birth control about a month ago, and it's like he is always in the mood but I never am. Sex feels like a chore now because I only do it to please my husband - i don't want him to suffer cuz I can't get in the mood. My husband pleases me, I find him very attractive, we have no problems in our relationship, but I am just NEVER in the mood to have sex! could something be wrong??
that's the thing with bc it messes up your hormones I would talk to your doctor about getting the one with the low hormone dosage. Also what do you mean by never orgasm ed? Most women do not have those screaming panting orgasms you see in videos an actual orgasm is something much different. anyway try to get to the doc to see if the bc is causing the decrease in sex drive good luck
Perhaps you need a different birth control. Also you should learn how to give yourself an orgasm so.....you can show him what works for you.
It is the birth control pills!! I had this issue for 18 years and just thought there was something wrong with me. Finally I found out that it was the pills. I stopped them and started using other methods for birth control and you would not believe the difference. I suddenly had urges that I had never felt before. I am like a new woman now!! My hubby loves it and so do I. Try using condoms rather than taking a hormone, it will be the best thing you have ever done.