OMG. You don't understand a whole lot of things yet. I have no ulterior motive. I am just saying that you aren't ready for any of this. Drugs kill people. Sex makes baby's. If no one else tells you this, be kind to yourself & respect yourself enough to say NO to both.
Love ya!
you shouldn't be thinking about those things..you're only 11..enjoy being a kid while you still can
its normal to wonder about those things but that doesnt mean you should act on them! you are much too young to have sex! ask your mom about it or an older sister/friend. Stay away from drugs thats a path you dont wanna go down!
Your thinking more about sex because of hormones and puberty. It's normal.
You shouldn't be thinking about drugs at the age of 11. That is NOT normal! You really need to get that out of your head.
It is called biology.
Your body is changing as you move toward being an adult. What you are feeling is natural.
As you are only 11, ( I am much older than that and am removed from your personal emotions) try not to react on these emotions yet. One day some one will come into your life who will value you as a person. Every one before that will see you as an object to use and toss aside.
This may not be a popular sentiment. but one that will be healthy for you in the long run.
Glad that you're opening up to people about your feelings, but maybe it's best if you talk about these things with a parent (preferably mum) , an older sister, an aunt...someone with more experience. I am a 16 year old and I can tell you.....enjoy your childhood while you can. I think it's sad that we're forced to grow before our time and that it's just a way to survive now.
NO to sex.
NO to drugs.
Respect for others and property is important, But it's the respect you show to yourself that is the greatest of all. And when I say yourself I mean mind, body and soul.
Lolo
That wondering about how drugs feel is alarming. You mention the word "feel" twice; it seems you want to experiment.
Don't.
It is hard to look ahead and see the consequences of trying everything out. You need to start NOW to understand who and what you really are. You have core values--good and not so good, but probably more good than bad. Find them. Understand them. Strengthen the good values and keep yourself out of circumstances in which you could do things I guarantee you will later regret.
There is a caring, good-humored, good-hearted, intelligent woman that you can be, but not if you do not care for her and protect her. Do nothing to get the approval of others; respect the person you want to become and stand firmly for her.
Over time, you will that others, even those that torment you and tempt you, respect you as they do not respect other girls. And if someone does not respect you, kick him out of your life. You DESERVE the respect and honor of others. But no one will respect or honor you if you don't respect and honor yourself first.
Take good care of yourself; the world outside is full of people eager to bring you down. But, if you know how to look, you will also find people willing, even eager, to help you be the best you that you can be.
It's normal to be curious and think about sex. However, you are way too young to do this. As far as drugs, I will tell you a story about my cousin...I never met him and never will. Years ago, he was at a party and someone slipped a drug in his drink. Since then he has lived in a mental institution. He has so many problems, that none of the family can see him anymore. He is afraid of everybody, and has turned violent against everyone. I have never heard one good thing about drugs. Please don't ever go down that road.
Sex is bad, Don't do it. And don't ask questions like that on here... you are only 11 years old!!! Ask your mum next time.
its all natural!
your age is the age hormones RAGE.
dont worry, you'll get used to it. :]
Stay away from drugs and ciggarettes.
Dont have sex until you KNOW you're ready.
Yes, it's perfectly normal.