I have issues?!
Question: Whenever im at the dentist or doctor and they do a check up on me or are just a little too nice i total just want to beat the crap out of them. Like i dont know i think i have issues with people like that. Like ok i might have an infection and my mom says that what the doctor does is they take a swab of your insides, and as soon as she told me that all i did was cuss and swear and go totally just crazy. So she said i dont have to if i dont want to. But its just i have issues with people. Especially when doctors touch me in places i dont allow even my mom to go. Only my bf can. Im 15 and i swear i need help.
PLease dont say anger manegment, because i've tried that and that was just a total mess.
Answers: Whenever im at the dentist or doctor and they do a check up on me or are just a little too nice i total just want to beat the crap out of them. Like i dont know i think i have issues with people like that. Like ok i might have an infection and my mom says that what the doctor does is they take a swab of your insides, and as soon as she told me that all i did was cuss and swear and go totally just crazy. So she said i dont have to if i dont want to. But its just i have issues with people. Especially when doctors touch me in places i dont allow even my mom to go. Only my bf can. Im 15 and i swear i need help.
PLease dont say anger manegment, because i've tried that and that was just a total mess.
LOL at the " ive tried anger managment and it didnt work " and i do kno wut you mean , ima guy , and when ever i have to go in for a phisical , and the docotor is all felin up on me and **** , im just thikin like back up off my nuts before i drop you LOL
Suck it up and go to the doctor, your health is more important than your pride.
Did anger-management make you ANGRY!?!?!?!
To get help, you have to want it. You can have people tell you that you have problems all day, but if you don't want to do something about it, then nothing's going to change. Many doctors need to get to those places to do a routine, medically condoned inspection/test. It's the only way to do those checks. Better to be a little embarrassed than live with cervical cancer without knowing it. Maybe your boyfriend should go to med school, that way you won't need to take out your anger on the people that are trying to help you.
Have a doctor for a boyfriend. Problem solved!
NEVER TRUST YOUR DOCTOR but trust the science.
That should always be in your mind.
Being angry is a sign of insecurity (in its scientific non-offending sense). It is our defense from being offended first. It is natural to be angry as long as it does not happen all the time. But do you really need to in such instances? What are you to be guarded against? As for your BF, why don;t you go to him, let him touch those senitive places and ask him if there is something wrong? Will that make any difference?
On being examined in sensitive parts:
Always ask for alternative ways of examination.
If needed, ask for a referral to a doctor who you think will not offend you, like a female doctor.
In cases of extreme need:
If you happen to be dying of an unkown disease, would you rather die untouched? Bear in mind that a lot of deadly diseases only get to be diagnosed in its terminal state because Patients Always Lie (it's almost a rule).
Yep, you need help. Professional help. See a doctor.
well if you want to have inacourse you need to be checked for any kind of diease, cuz you dont know if he has something or you need a check up every year to see if you have any other problems.......
Your health is very important. Please, don't choose to not go to the doctor. Your doctors should be aware of your problems. Call ahead of time and have them call in a prescription for an anti anxiety med for you. They do help. They calm you down enough so that you don't really care what's going on. Most common prescription is valuim or the generic version. It really helps. You take it about an hour before you get to the appointment. I had the same problem as you, but I had physical and sexual abuse issues. I have since seeked counciling, and have resolved my problem enough that I can go to the doctor and not suffer any mental trauma.?