I need a girl's advice.?!
Question: Sometimes I don't feel very girly. I know I'm young & still developing but I feel less girly because I have A cups sometimes. I know girls with my build are late bloomers & my body is very proportionate but it still makes me feel bad. I work at a fast food restaurant & I work by our grill area. That is considered a guy's job. Today I moved around something really heavy. My boss consider me strong & asked if I was manly (well he phrased it another way but that's the basic idea). I sing low notes in chorus. I'm an alto 2 (the lowest part a girl can sing) & I can hit bass notes. One of my friends said I dress like a guy & thinks I don't wear enough makeup. Another one of my friends criticized me on my looks too (the way I dress, my makeup, and saying I need to put my hair up and stuff). So what can I do to make these bad feelings go away?
Answers: Sometimes I don't feel very girly. I know I'm young & still developing but I feel less girly because I have A cups sometimes. I know girls with my build are late bloomers & my body is very proportionate but it still makes me feel bad. I work at a fast food restaurant & I work by our grill area. That is considered a guy's job. Today I moved around something really heavy. My boss consider me strong & asked if I was manly (well he phrased it another way but that's the basic idea). I sing low notes in chorus. I'm an alto 2 (the lowest part a girl can sing) & I can hit bass notes. One of my friends said I dress like a guy & thinks I don't wear enough makeup. Another one of my friends criticized me on my looks too (the way I dress, my makeup, and saying I need to put my hair up and stuff). So what can I do to make these bad feelings go away?
Dress how you want and be comfortable with yourself. Dont change yourself into someone your not b/c you will regret it later. If you want to change then do it a little at a time. Brush off what they are saying. They probably spend 2 hours in the morning for pretty much no reason. No one really cares as long a you dont smell bad.
And by the way I sing alto too. I think that it is a great and wonderful thing to be able to sing low. I personally can sing every womens part. But the low parts just seem so much better. Plus, every guy I talk to prefers a low alto over a sopranno. I doesnt make you more like a guy.
I bet that there is many people that want to be like you. So dont change if you dont want to. Be your self and have fun. Dont listen to your friends. Besides if all they want is to change you then they are not really friends
Hey, dress how you like. It you're not gay however, you might want to girlie it up a little. It has nothing to do with cup size, but it has everything to do with style. Go shopping with some friends and ask their advice.
o dont worry what they say, imma A cup, im an alto. as far as how you dress maybe if you wear T shirts and shop in the guys section id worry, but as long as you shop in the womens department and dont wear too many T shirts then leave the rest of the trust to the store. if you think the make up u wear makes you look fine than thats ok, personaly im pretty strong , but that doesnt make me like a man.
ignore them darling. people can be so ignorant. there is nothing wrong with you. i was a late bloomer(a cup at 19), im a 34dd now (naturally) and im gettin girlier the older i get (im 23). just ignore the people who make stupid comments.
to make the feelings go away get better friends.as to your boobs it dosent matter yur size.but clothes and makeup and stuff do.but too much ake up is ugly and trashy.only put alittle and be hapy with who u are
it will be ok to prove your friends wrong wair a dress dont worry about what they say wory about whats in your heart when i was your age i stuffed my bra!
you will grow into your looks! it just takes time and you pretty much got that on your side. so what if you are strong. if your friends critisize you, they are probably dealing with some of their own issues....inside. you are fine the way you are and if you want, get a make up lesson (the department store girls LOVE a makeover!) and if not, who cares? peole dont MAKE you feel a certain way, you ALLOW them to make you feel that way. let people know how you feel when they say something about you femininity. they will get the picture. by the time you get out of highschool, you will be the envy of all! dont worry!
dont feel bad about yourself and if your friends really cared about you they would NOT judge you about how your hair looks your size makeup but you could try some new things like dressing up in more girl like clothes with more make up if you dont feel comfortable in this then you dont have make this the permanent way you look and dress.
dress and act the way you are most comfortable.
many times people will say things to you to make themselves feel superior--i think those are the types of things being said to you.
people will always speak before they think.
you just need to accept that you`re fine the way you are.
things may change as you get older, and then again, they may not.
just accept that you`re a great person just as you are.
"you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars--you have a right to be here.
and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should".
Accept yourself for whoever you are. I call myself "La Petite Linebacker!". I have always been muscular with broad shoulders, big muscular thighs, a deep voice and masculine walk. When I was in high school, I wore mini-skirts and the other kids would call me "She-Man". But I never really cared. I thought and still think I'm beautiful. So what others said rarely mattered. Even now, I'm 36 and I have co-workers who feel like they should tell me how I should dress to be more femine. Well, I know what I'm comfortable with. And for me a nice pair of slacks or a comfy pair of jeans are great. I wear heels but they are always low and casual. Take the time to get to know you and learn to love who you are and appreciate all that you are. No one else on the whole Earth is you, and that makes you very special. And if your friends have problems with that, don't worry about it. To this day, I still can't whisper, cause my voice is deep and heavy, but I'm all woman and any man who can get and keep my attention will tell you this too. Also, after one baby and growing all the way up, I still only wear a B cup (A cup until I had the baby) and men love my boobs. So don't think less of yourself for not being the typical,
You are the unique and special. Embrace it!
i know EXACTLY where your comming from because i have a muscular build and can single base in cheerleading. theres two things you can get to make you feel better
1.buy a heavliy padded push up bra (victorias secret makes a great puch up with air pockeets to make you look natrual)
2.buy tighter tops with a moderalty low cut but not low v necks,so tight you feel uncomfortable.the shirts should be fitted not sluty
and if you like the way you dress them stay that way im 15 and the only makeup i wear is lipgloss if i remember that
if you do decide to wear make up DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT wear so much your pores cant breath itl cause acne and black heads. start wearing it gradually only add 1 thing every other week your face has to get used to it and change the oils and amount of oils released