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Question: How do I stop going down on my girlfriend so much?
We've been dating for about a year now and everytime we have sex she expects me to go down on her first. Even when shes on her period, which of course is rather unpleasant to me because of the smell during that time. Most of the time I don't too much when things are normal even though it can be a hassle since it automatically adds 20 minutes of that beforehand and by the time we are ready to do it i've lost the will for the most part.
I'm afraid she'll be offended if I tell her I'd rather not do it so much. Is this common in a relationship?
Answers: How do I stop going down on my girlfriend so much?
We've been dating for about a year now and everytime we have sex she expects me to go down on her first. Even when shes on her period, which of course is rather unpleasant to me because of the smell during that time. Most of the time I don't too much when things are normal even though it can be a hassle since it automatically adds 20 minutes of that beforehand and by the time we are ready to do it i've lost the will for the most part.
I'm afraid she'll be offended if I tell her I'd rather not do it so much. Is this common in a relationship?
okay so from what i understand is that you don't like going down on her that much. Well honey if she begs for you to do it everytime then you must be pretty damn good. Some women prefer oral sex over intercourse. Hell I'm one of them. To many women it is the only way they can get enjoyment out of sex. She might not be able to get there through intercourse so she likes what she knows what works.
Honestly, now has she ever gotten off any other besides oral. If you not sure try to think back about how she act. Did she just sit there and take it or did she moan and make a face like she was being tortured. Not happy but tortured. You will know the difference if you have seen it enough.
But I suggest you talk to her about this so she can actually tell you, b/c every girl is different. Well I hoped I may have helped.
shes ya gurl homie dun loose her ova sum dum reason lie dat jus let her kno she nawt gon say nutin except let ya kno whats wrong wit you playa
if you don't want to, you shouldn't hve to. If she can't understand that...
Well, just tell her
Just talk to her. Communication is key in every relationship we have all heard it over and over but it really does work. I honestly cant imagine having anyone going down on me while I was on my period I wouldn't be able to let my bf do it. But seriously talk to her, my boyfriend and I talk about what we like and want to do sex wise and just talking about and knowing what the other person wants and mixing things up has made our sex amazing. Another thing is does she go down on you every time you two have sex? Just explain where you are coming from and she may be offended and wonder why at first but you can avoid all that by explaining exactly what the problem is. Hope this helps
You poor, selfish, clock-watching, sorry excuse for a lover. If you're just going through the motions, then neither one of you are enjoying the experience. But don't worry, she'll dump you soon enough.
you shouldn't have 2 do it everytime, especially if she's on her period thats jus downright gross! There are other types of foreplay, tease her and stuff and then jus go straight into sex. If she questions you jus tell her that u like changing up the routine and dont wanna feel that u have 2 go downtown everytime
Seriously talk to her, you would solve anything if you just keep waiting. Start off by showing her your finger work, try to make her feel as good with your hands. Stimutate her clitoris with one finger and insert another inside her. The sensation will be amazing. Just try different things and spice it up a little.
I like going down, and I earned my "red wings" long, long ago. In fact, sometimes I want to kiss her genitals when she doesn't want to be kissed. Of course, I respect her wishes - mostly because, when I get it just right doing what she wants done, I get a mind-blowing response.
There are awkard positions for kissing p**sy, and they can leave you tired or sore after a while. Lift her hips more, put a pillow under your chest, have her over you with a knee on each side of your head, or something. There's also a possibility that she's gotten locked into just one sequence of events. If that works for her, then great. If you're more of a variety kind of guy, then oral sex isn't the issue - it's boredom. The problem comes when you want something new every time and she wants you to follow the script.
It doesn't matter whether your specific complaint is common or not. EVERY couple has some kind of mismatch, and mismatches change year by year. The best any couple can do is to have one partner just go ahead and do what he knows she'll like (or other way around), or for her to learn to try your things just because you like them, just because they turn you on (or other way around). As long as you give as good as you get, sooner or later, that's not selfishness, it's reciprocity.