Is Breaking the Hymen just like getting your period???????!
Question: ok i ready to have sex but i so scared about the hymen breaking i want to know how bad it hurts.
is it like getting your period?
how long will i be in pain?
i really need to know.
and how much blood will come out cuz i dont want to gush all over him
Answers: ok i ready to have sex but i so scared about the hymen breaking i want to know how bad it hurts.
is it like getting your period?
how long will i be in pain?
i really need to know.
and how much blood will come out cuz i dont want to gush all over him
I'm really sorry you feel you are "ready for this".
But I won't lecture.
It will be better if he doesn't try to be "gentle" It will only hurt for an instant like a cut on your finger hurts for an instant, if he will just thrust hard. Only a little blood will happen maybe a teaspoon or two. You will want to protect whatever you are laying on.
You will not enjoy this first sexual intercourse session, but he certainly will. Please remember, you will be giving him something you will never be giving anyone else, even the special man you will one day marry and spend your life with And at your age, he will tire of you and move on, and you will be left with more than a broken hymen. A broken heart, and if you are not on birth control pills AND a condom, you will be left pregnant and possibly with a STD. I'm sorry you feel you have to do this. Check out the answer above from the guy who's already had two virgins.... I don't know of a young man under the age of 20 who wants to get married. Don't care how much they tell you they love you. They want to get into your pants and put a notch on their gun. See how many they can "get". It's a bunch of fun for them.
I'm sorry, I said there wouldn't be any lectures, but somebody has to tell you the truth.
I am a Registered Nurse
If you don't know, then your not ready to have sex.
I agree. If you don't know, then you are not ready.
I've honestly been with 2 virgins (not at the same time) and each one bled 3 drops of blood. It did not "gush" out.
Sweetie, it's a piece of skin smaller than a coin! It probably will only hurt for a couple seconds, and not too bad. You'll only bleed a couple drops, if any. And no, it's not like your period at all. Remember to use a condom!!!