Loosing virginity..?!


Question: I'm getting ready to loose my virginity to my future husband. I have a few questions:

How badly does it hurt? Is there anything I can do to make it hurt less? What can my boyfriend do to help me through it? Will I bleed? How much?


Answers: I'm getting ready to loose my virginity to my future husband. I have a few questions:

How badly does it hurt? Is there anything I can do to make it hurt less? What can my boyfriend do to help me through it? Will I bleed? How much?

All of those questions vary from person to person. You can take a pain killer such as advil ahead of time to ease the pain. Make sure you are fully aroused before you start having sex and take it slowly. Don't be afraid to tell him to stop if it hurts too badly. You will probably bleed a little, but it shouldn't be much.

It won't hurt AT ALL if you are prepared. Be sure to do foreplay first and to not tense up - it's supposed to be pleasurable. If you bleed it should be very, very little as long as your partner is not rough with you.

The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all girls have pain.

The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)

For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.

Relaxing, foreplay (fingering can help stretch you), being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.

It hurts a a lot!
Get really drunk!
Yes a little bit.

im a guy...i never did a virgian cause i didnt want her bleeding on my weiner....hope that helps

Well, it took me a looooong time to loose mine, because the pain was way too much and every time he would try it i had to tell him to stop (i even thought there was something wrong with me), but around last month, my boyfriend took to a beautiful place full of roses (it was really romantic) and we just took it very easy and slow, and to be honest i felt no pain AT ALL, just pleasure, there was no blood, no pain, it was just perfect, i know everybody its different, but make sure you are well lubricated, and tell him to be gentle and take things very slow.





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