Since orgasms are better for women, why don't they pursue sex as aggressivel!


Question: A man feels his orgasm in basically one place. Women, on the other hand, have the clitoris, the g-spot and the act of penetration itself. They can have multiple orgasms that occur in all those locations and they last longer.
The only theory I can come up with is that they "forget" how good it is while men remember. And the reason women forget has to do with giving birth. It hurts! And no woman in her right mind would go through that pain again unless she forgot what it was like (which is how nature gets you to keep reproducing.) So, since intercourse is similar and occurs in the same place, maybe those sensations also get forgotten.


Answers: A man feels his orgasm in basically one place. Women, on the other hand, have the clitoris, the g-spot and the act of penetration itself. They can have multiple orgasms that occur in all those locations and they last longer.
The only theory I can come up with is that they "forget" how good it is while men remember. And the reason women forget has to do with giving birth. It hurts! And no woman in her right mind would go through that pain again unless she forgot what it was like (which is how nature gets you to keep reproducing.) So, since intercourse is similar and occurs in the same place, maybe those sensations also get forgotten.

Men use sex as a release. When the urge builds up for men thats all they can think about and they have to orgasm. For women, their desire is not physiological but rather emotional. It would be like someone who really want a piece of cake. They may want it but after a while, they forget about it and think about other things. It isnt as important for a women to orgasm, it is just a perk.

And most women dont orgasm during sex anyway.

I disagree that a womens orgasm is better than a mans, it is just different and it is not nearly as intense.

Plus your birth theory doesnt make sense. What about women who have never given birth?

Who ever said orgasms are better for women? And if you aren't a man, then you can't possibly know "where" a man feels his orgasm, nor that it is not as good as a womans. Men also have a "g-spot". It is the prostate. Some women do pursue sex agressively, some women don't. Some men pursue sex agressively, some don't. Basically everything you are trying to say as a fact, are all just assumptions, and your opinions.

In fact, my boyfriend isn't one of them men that want sex every second of every day, he has always been that way. Sure he loves it, and we have sex often. But I tend to "pursue it more agressively" than he does. It all depends on the person.

And I can tell you right now..no woman "forgets" the pain of child birth, love.


Yes, some women could pick a different guy to have sex with every night if they wanted. As for why some women don't "take advantage', as you say, of this is because..perhaps they just have some morals and don't care to be seen as a slutt? As I said, I'm agressive about sex, I love it, but I would never sleep around. Sleeping around doesn't mean you like variety, it means you're a slutt.

Men are also more capable of just having a one night stand and never seeing the girl again, which is part of the reason some men sleep around. Women use their emotions, especially when it comes to sex, which is part of why it is harder for some women to sleep around.

I'm taken, and I get offers to "hook up" while at the pub, I turn them down, and walk away. Why? Because, men like that make me feel sick, like I'm just a piece of meat or something. Also I have respect for myself, respect for my boyfriend, and love for him. If I was single and a "decent looking guy" started flirting with me, and wanted me to go have sex with him, I would still turn him down. As I said, I have morals, respect for myself, and really I don't care to be seen as a slutt, by anyone. If I was single, and some guy started flirting with me, and we got into a good conversation..then asked me out on a date later in the week. I would probably agree to the date. As a rule I don't have sex with men until I am in a long term relationship with him, and have been in the relationship with him for a while. Call me a prude if you must, I don't care.

Some men are the same way I am. Not all guys will go sleep with some random girl. Many do, but not all of them.


Once again, most of what you have said is just your opinions, assumptions, and ridiculous generalizations.

and whoever said that men pursue it as aggresively as women.

i jacked off so much as a high school and college student and we've had sex approx. once a day for the past 13 years, that i'm about worn out.

My wife is 40 and oversexed. i wish we would have cooled it some in the early years. at one time, i came 15 times one night. Now i'm lucky to have sex once a night.

I think it depends on the person and the spouse. I think women are just as oversexxed as men -- depending.

maybe its cuz its more difficult for women to orgasm? and who says they dont persue it as aggressively?!!!!my partner thinks im insatiable!

i dont think what you said is true..
some women can be pretty umm randy?

Um, not all women "forget." And as far as us feeling it in multiple places? Well, let's just say you need to do a little more research. And for how long they last? Seriously, that varies too.
Most of what you are trying to quote here as fact are all opinions.
And furthermore, put it this way. When a man sleeps with a bunch of women, men say he is cool and has game. When a girl does the same thing she gets nothing but criticism. So maybe it is the double standard that has made women be more cautious about it.
Also, so many of the bad after effects of sex fall on the woman. Pregnancy and STD's are the ones most men know about, but they can also get UTI's and other infections.
Furthermore, giving birth is the reason women forget? There are a lot of women who have yet to give birth and still don't want to have sex all the time.

You have made a lot of assumptions here, that in my opinion as one of those 'passive, forgetful women' is probably the reason you face this problem. It pisses women off when you make assumptions like this, and since our emotions are directly linked to sex, if we are pissed off, we don't want it. And if a guy said this stuff to me, I would be pissed. Therefore, it would seem I wasn't pursuing sex. But in reality, maybe it is the woman just isn't pursuing that man. If a woman likes a man, believe me, she will pursue it until he is exhausted.

I aggressively pursue sex with my bf. We have awesome sex every time I get to see him. I have multiple orgasms every single time. When I'm single, however, I don't aggressively pursue sex with multiple partners. I don't care for sex that isn't in a relationship of some kind, whether it be in a committed or friends with benefits kind of relationship. Not to say that I haven't had one night stands. I have had one nighters and they rarely ended in good sex. That's another reason I don't pursue it when I'm single. Also, it is dangerous for a gal to go home with a new dude every night. There are lots of whack jobs out there.





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