Please help me, I think I have " let myself go "?!
Question: I hardly wear make-up, I havent bought any clothes that actually fit in a couple years, (I buy them too small cuz I plan on loosing weight) I have been trying to lose weight for years I'm like 40 pounds overweight. I wear ugly pajamas that my boyfriend always makes fun of, I dont get my nails done and rarely shave my legs. I felt comfortable being like this untill this weekend my boyfriend, said that I have let myself go and he doesnt like it. A couple years ago when I was thinner I was never like this I always made sure I looked super cute. How do I get back like that cuz I really feel fine the way I'm living now but I dont want my b/f to break up with me over this and I do think he has a point. And I'm pregnant too so Im just going to get fatter.
Answers: I hardly wear make-up, I havent bought any clothes that actually fit in a couple years, (I buy them too small cuz I plan on loosing weight) I have been trying to lose weight for years I'm like 40 pounds overweight. I wear ugly pajamas that my boyfriend always makes fun of, I dont get my nails done and rarely shave my legs. I felt comfortable being like this untill this weekend my boyfriend, said that I have let myself go and he doesnt like it. A couple years ago when I was thinner I was never like this I always made sure I looked super cute. How do I get back like that cuz I really feel fine the way I'm living now but I dont want my b/f to break up with me over this and I do think he has a point. And I'm pregnant too so Im just going to get fatter.
I had the same experience with boyfriend. I am a big girl, but lately Ive let my self go a bit, and i noticed it in him, that he was a bit weary.He loves me , for who i am, but he cares for my health more than anything.Congratulations for the coming baby! you will put a bit of weight on, that's normal! so enjoy it, just think after the baby u can do some ex cerise etc, but u can still be a sexy pregnant woman, shave your legs, put some makeup, go to the hairdresser, get some highlights,why no! show your bf how sexy you are!!! ;) i bet your a pretty woman! congrats ! :)
You shouldn't have to wear makeup, or shave your legs. I don't wear makeup, I do shave, but I don't feel I should have to. I do it for personal will, not because people want me to. When I don't have to, I don't. Makeup is a mask, don't go back to it. If your boyfriend is going to break up with you over your appearance that's his loss.
The first thing to do is go out & treat yourself to some cute new clothes and pjs. Of course u will gain weight now, your pregs, and thats what u and the baby need. But work on the little things. It might be hard at first, but stick to it. Keep up your self -esteam, not for your BF, but for yourself. Sometimes hormones during pregnancy make u feel down too. Just a little make-up/cute clothes makes a big difference.
You will regret your current lack of concern. Better shape up.
you know us women go through mood swings sometimes we let it out by crying,sometime going shopping and other times we just feel like we don't want to do anything especially if we're not happy about the way we look(speaking of experience) ,and with you being pregnant your hormones are prob going crazy trying to adjust so its normal to feel that way and you shouldn't have to feel worried about your bf leaving you so i would just talk to him and tell him the problem and just go treat yourself to a spa ,and get you some pretty pj's and try to take care of yourself as much as you can you will feel better!
Try, if you lose your man and baby's father over the fact that you are just plain lazy; you are going to get worse.
PLEASE for everyone else's sake, clean your self up and take some pride in yourself. You've got a great guy to at least give you a heads up about looking like ****, and you're about to be a mom. Don't embarrass yourself, your man, and your kid.
Be proud of who you are.