My sex drive has gone down greatly as of late.?!


Question: This is due to 5 high blood pressure meds I'm on. I need them to survive- otherwise another stroke may occur.I had one in 2005 and am doing ok mostly, but for right side paralysis.
My partner does not fully understand the fact that I'm not the same person I once was, on a sexual level. And my partner has a great sexual appetite and deserves better than the me I am today. What should I do?


Answers: This is due to 5 high blood pressure meds I'm on. I need them to survive- otherwise another stroke may occur.I had one in 2005 and am doing ok mostly, but for right side paralysis.
My partner does not fully understand the fact that I'm not the same person I once was, on a sexual level. And my partner has a great sexual appetite and deserves better than the me I am today. What should I do?

Wow, this is a tough spot you're in. It's easy to understand how your medications are affecting you physically- well, it's easy to know that this situation is different from depression, or anger, or laziness, or any other issue.
Now, for folks who are of a regular health bent, the answer is to do it anyway! The more you do it, and in earnest, the more you like it.
You may just be able to recover a little desire.
Now, with meds, and possible fears (elveated heart rate, etc), you may need to speak with your doctor and better, others with your medications and condition, you may begin to ease your (possible) fears, and any guilt you may have associated with your recent slow-down...
and enjoy.
But the idea of sex is not always to enjoy-
it is to love, and to give freely, to put the other before the self.
This means that while it's nice to SAY he deserves better,
it's up to you to figure out how to DO better.
That's love.
Not about your desires.
KY and a little bit of love.
And to lay any fears and other feelings you have to rest.

Good luck!

talk to your doctor or nurse about it. Your not the only one. Maybe they can give you something to help out. don't stop your meds.

Okay, why are you telling me this. Im in a dry spell too, I dont need to hear all your problems. If you want to have sex, then by god do it. Its not that hard

There are all kinds of toys to buy for your partner, check them out at any local XXX shop

Not all love making has to include penetration. There are many ways to build a new loving relationship, you just have to find a new lease of life and learn to develop and grow in a different way.

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