Now I'm not an expert but i know that it is not supposed to hurt...?!
Question: okay so i just lost my virginity today...and oh my god it huuuurt!!!! I know it's normal but i just want to know if it will go away soon. I mean i couldn't even enjoy it! then i felt really bad when i told my boyfriend that it hurt cause it really wasn't his fault...idk. but i cannot believe that i did that! i wasn't planning on lossing it any time soon.
Answers: okay so i just lost my virginity today...and oh my god it huuuurt!!!! I know it's normal but i just want to know if it will go away soon. I mean i couldn't even enjoy it! then i felt really bad when i told my boyfriend that it hurt cause it really wasn't his fault...idk. but i cannot believe that i did that! i wasn't planning on lossing it any time soon.
If you were not properly stimulated, or if he did not use enough lubricant, then you would have suffered quite a bit of pain.
Now you are probably feeling a burning sensation. Run yourself a warm, soapy bath and soak in it for at least thirty minutes. Then repeat it in about an hour. This will reduce the soreness and burning. Be prepared to not have more sex for a couple of days at least. The next time make sure he takes his time, spends a lot of time stimulating and exciting you, and uses plenty of lubricant on his condom. The pain will be much less the next time. By the third or fourth time the pain will be non-existant.
Good Luck
It is normal for it to hurt a lot. Next time should be a lot better!
that's pretty common! It should stop hurting but on the off chance that it doesn't, say in 3 days, I recommend going to your GYN.
Also, make sure it doesn't hurt anymore before trying again.
It sounds as if you are too young to have had sex. Well, don't worry. The pain will eventually go away. Give it a few days. I lost my virginity at 13 and it hurt for about a week. Just want to say also, be sure you are using condoms. You are probably too young to be a mother, and you sure don't want any nasty embarrassing diseases!
Well it is suppose to hurt but if you would of masturbated then your cherry would have popped and then when you lost your virginity it wouldnt hurt as nad. How does it feel?
It hurt my first and second time, but it should get better. My first time was a shock to I wasn't planning on it either. But make sure that you use protection and go slow the next time. I remember telling my hubby that if it wasn't better next time we weren't having sex ever again, it takes a wile to get use to but it's worth it. Good luck and I home I helped
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt. Give yourself a few day, up to a week. Make sure you are properly lubericated.