Do all girls go through a rebellious stage?!
Question: I used to be extremely happy and perky, but now suddenly I feel like the world hates me and that everyone is doing something on purpose to get me mad.
The biggest change for me is with my mom. I used to be best friends with her, and really open, but now I hate her. It seems like every little thing she does is taunting and embarrasing and she won't ever listen to me, and that she favors my sister and brother more than me. I refuse to tell her what happens at school, and tell her to shut up and stop being so nosy. It's mean, I know, but I don't think about how moody I'm being when I talk to her, it just... slips out.
Is this normal? It's only started a month or two ago, and it's starting to make me wonder if I'm becoming a violent person or something. I just started my period a few weeks back, so does that have anything to do with it?
Answers: I used to be extremely happy and perky, but now suddenly I feel like the world hates me and that everyone is doing something on purpose to get me mad.
The biggest change for me is with my mom. I used to be best friends with her, and really open, but now I hate her. It seems like every little thing she does is taunting and embarrasing and she won't ever listen to me, and that she favors my sister and brother more than me. I refuse to tell her what happens at school, and tell her to shut up and stop being so nosy. It's mean, I know, but I don't think about how moody I'm being when I talk to her, it just... slips out.
Is this normal? It's only started a month or two ago, and it's starting to make me wonder if I'm becoming a violent person or something. I just started my period a few weeks back, so does that have anything to do with it?
Absolutely starting your period has a lot to do with it. Hormones are raging and your body is trying to decide what way to react to them. Please realize your mother is only trying to get your previous connection back. I bet she misses you. Try asking her how it was with her when she first started her period, then tell her how you feel. This should break the tension strain and maybe you two will get your relationship back on track. Yes all girls go through a rebellious stage, It's how they come out of it that matters. If you see one of your friends talking to her mother like you have been talking to yours, what do you think of the friend. You probably won't believe this now but your mother is still your best friend and she always will be hopefully. Try to let up on yourself just a little and know that as your body adjusts to the hormones you will calm down. Wish you well....
How old are you? It could just be your hormones going crazy....but no, not all girls go through a rebellious stage. That is a myth. In fact, research has shown that most teenagers actually love and respect their parents (my mother is psychologist. thats where i get my info)
It is most likely just your hormones. Don't worry about it too much unless it starts to make you feel very unhappy. Also, it is natural to want your parents to be less involved in your life at this age. Thats just part of being a teenager.
all people go thru this stage, you are at the beginning of
your young adult life, have started making your own decisions
and don't worry you won't always hate Mom, but remember
she loves you.
Yea, that's part of adolescense. It's not just for girls, guys go through it too, hormones are the reason. They're so up and down and everywhere, it messes with our emotions and it's not something we can control. It takes a while for them to steady out, and you'll be going through a lot for the next set of years. Your parents will understand, but that won't stop them from getting angry and punishing you for your actions. You just have to sit back and think about the day, think about what you've said, and later apologize for it, and make sure they know you mean it. It will mean a lot to them.
yeahh im 14 right now and I feel the same wayy as you do so yeahh i think everyone goes through that
I'm 13 2 well almost 14 but im still going throo exactly the same thing. I do that 2 my mum 2 and I think it's mostly to do with hormone and u trying 2 live ur own life and them trying to stop u and that gets annoying duznt it? I think most teenagers go throo that stage both girls and guys where they just want 2 b independent and have a life, also a lot to do with raging hormones. I got grounded a few months ago for telling my mum a much ruder version of go away so yea I think pretty much everyone goes throo that so dont fret ur not alone.