Is there a way to lose your viginity vith out pain?!
Question: If so how?
Answers: If so how?
not everyone has pain, the hyman in many girls is broke or stretched long before they get to a sexual age. It can be done through horse riding, figure skating, gymnastics, intense arobics or other physical activity etc.
I know it never hurt me the first time I had sex because I already had mine broke when I was about 8 because I had been in competative figure skating and horse back riding and one day I noticed when I got in from riding I had some blood.
Lots of foreplay and lube willmake it better though.Don't just go raming him in without foreplay.
Fingers, lube and then penis.
Get drunk, you will not feel it that way as much.
Tell him to be extremely careful and let him know that you're a virgin.
Take it slow.
It was not painful for me.
most likely not. it will hurt either way. your tight and think of it like trying to fit a cucumber into a plastic water bottle hole. it just ain't gonna work very well. sure it might go in eventually but it will hurt and be a little bit of work. i know, bad example but makes ya think! lol. i think being fingered helps open you up a bit, but still it will hurt.
If you want to break your hymen yourself, take a hot bath and start by 'loosening' yourself up with your fingers and thinking about whatever gets you hot and bothered, then slowly, at a pace comfortable for you, slide in a sanitized dildo or some other safe phallic object. The angle at which to do this can very from person to person, but the heat should help lessen the pain, your in the tub so you do not have to worry about a mess, and there is no guy to worry about so you can stop whenever you want to. Otherwise, just explain to the guy its your first time and go slow, and try to find a position that lets you control how deep he is.
on a side note; Just because your hymen has popped, that does not always mean it wont hurt. My first several times were painful if my now husband went all the way in just because i'm a very small person and my husband is, well... not small at all. Don't be afraid to tell your partner when something hurts and work together to find something that feels good for both of you.
be relax at that moment (really helps) and ask him to be gently to you...and have a lot of foreplay...all these will help...be relax and think "it will not hurt" and that it happen to everyone everyday around the world and its a nature thing...
The doctor can snip your hymen for you but that's only in extreme cases, like if you absolutely cannot have sex without it being snipped,
but it doesnt hurt that bad
i dont think it hurts for men, if it does, somethings wrong
idk........................................
when i had sex for the first time it didn't hurt at all i think it depends on you... everyone is different
The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as the vagina has been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.