Why do some people do this?!
Question: I have a few girlfriends. They'll meet someone. Sleep with them. Then call me wishing and hoping that they are not pregnant. I ask them if they used condoms and I almost always get a, "No". How about just using a condom? Wouldn't that save you the agony of not knowing whether or not you are pregnant or that you have something far worst? I'm not saying that the condom is a sure way to not become pregnant, but it does help out.
Answers: I have a few girlfriends. They'll meet someone. Sleep with them. Then call me wishing and hoping that they are not pregnant. I ask them if they used condoms and I almost always get a, "No". How about just using a condom? Wouldn't that save you the agony of not knowing whether or not you are pregnant or that you have something far worst? I'm not saying that the condom is a sure way to not become pregnant, but it does help out.
because they do a lot of things without thinking to much and because sometimes people are accustomed to be irresponsible. they do the things at first hand and they jump into the pleasure like children do. it's a form of non consideration toward themselves and probably when one is drunk it takes to long and it's to difficult to use a condom or stuff like that. in my opinion this thing is a total mess, when you meet somebody and sleep with him and next weekend you meet somebody else and you do the same thing and so on.....for me that's a very dangerous thing both for your body and you soul, your integrity as a human being. because when someone has a stable relationship this thing it doesn't happen so often anyway. people do this because they don't respect themselves and because they don't know how to be worthy of respect and also because they sometimes behave like animals in a way. they don't know how to behave like humans ho have the ability to think and to choose what action to take.
I guess they are just irresponsible.
Because after the experience, they realize they're not invincible.
Or it "ruins the moment".
Sadly, we'll always have stupid people like that.
Babies ruin the moment 100x more than a condom will.
Maybe you need to find more responsible friends.
Well, apparently, it feels better to have sex without a condom.
I guess some people are irresponsible when it comes to the promise of pleasure.
I have a friend like that. She does it constantly! I think it's a cry for attention, honestly.
you have a good point
i'm not sure why people do that though, caught up in the moment alot maybe?
Actually, I think one of the biggest problems is they guy will say to these girls "don't worry, I'll pull out"
My parents were Catholic and back in the day it was the ONLY type of birth control they were permitted to us - and what is funny, if you look back then, a LOT of Catholics had 10 kids!! It's now I got here -- they tend to "trust' the guy for some STUPID reason or they're embarrassed to say "do you have a condom" --- I'm so glad you are asking them and hopefully making them THINK....YOU are a GOOD friend to them.....they are going to be sorry. So so so sorry!!!
Because they are stupid and somewhere in the back of their stupid little heads, they like the fear factor and the risk.
If they are really stupid, they probably think having a kid would be cool.
Carelessness and the heat of the moment. I'm not saying its right, but I've been there. You get caught up, maybe you don't have one, maybe you just don't even think about it. And next thing you know.... its the next day and your head is a little clearer. Thing is, why are these women complaining instead of heading over to the pharmacists to get Plan B? They don't need a prescription and its only $40. A lot cheaper than having (or not having if you know what I mean) a baby.
I dont know why but everyone is responsible for their own decisions, sounds like your friends are making poor ones. I think instead of asking us why your friends dont use condoms perhaps the next time they call you panick stricken ask them why they dont.
Maybe cos in the heat of the moment they aren't thinking about being safe, and the mentioning of protection might kill the mood, so they continue without thinking about the consequences. I'm not sure to be honest with you.
I have no idea. They shouldn't be having sex if they are that irresponsible.
My friend once called me saying he may have aids. I asked him if he used a condom, he's like "no, the person i had sex with doesn't like condoms because they don't feel good." I asked if they had gotten tested, he's like "no". I wanted to say "well, you're ignorant". haha. but whatever.