This is a little awkward but...?!
Question: 13 Female. On my period.
I have really bad cramps and they say masturbation can help.
And I'm feeling .. uhm, ya know. Sexually aroused but I'm 13.
Yeah, So can I have tips for masturbation. I've read to hump a pillow? How would I do that? Or, well please helppp.
Answers: 13 Female. On my period.
I have really bad cramps and they say masturbation can help.
And I'm feeling .. uhm, ya know. Sexually aroused but I'm 13.
Yeah, So can I have tips for masturbation. I've read to hump a pillow? How would I do that? Or, well please helppp.
Don't feel bad, 13 is a great age to learn to masturbate. Most other girls are learning it about the same time you are. And yes, it can help with period cramps.
A couple notes - you may or may not want to use a tampon while you do it. Some find it gets in the way, while others find the full feeling it brings adds something to their arousal. Without one, be prepared for a bit more mess.
Classic masturbation begins by rubbing the overall area. Using your full hand, just grab lightly and rub. You'll find you want to rub harder as you go. At this point, its probably still going to be while you wear panties, so the friction is between the panties and your hand.
Once you feel yourself starting to get carried away from that, slip off the panties and keep going. You will need to find out what you prefer - some like fingers inside their vagina - others like to just rub their clits. For the strongest experience you can try both. Whatever you do, just do more of what you like and less of what you dont.
Try and make sure you wont be interrupted. And be aware that if it goes really far, you may orgasm and make some noises while you do.
Lastly, you are about the age to discover what a lot of girls do at sleepovers. You'll learn a lot from those if you get a chance to participate.
Just take some ibuprofen - it's much less trouble and it'll work faster.
dont go humping pillows.. thats weird.. just explore down there.. u will find out what u like
Humping a pillow won't really work.... try playing with your clitoris. Or uhm.. even look at porn to really see how? (redtube.com) :x
Yea, ibuprofen is easier but not as fun. Research it--read about it.
Who are "they"? Try exercise like crunches or walking. Putting ice packs on your belly also helps. Extra Strength Tylenol or Midol helps. Some people take Valerian Root (herbal product) for cramps and it usually provides some relief. If you have this problem every month, see your doctor for medication that will relieve cramping.
when you're on your period sometimes it feels way better to have fun with yourself in a hot shower.
I have never heard about this technique, but I must say from experience (I'm 32 and married) that sex during menstruation does not help cramps. You just get blood everywhere, and then have to clean everything, and then you are so tired! The first answer was right on - drugs are a lot easier and work better!
you should really talk to someone you trust, there are way to many preditors online to take advantage of you....please seek help for these kind of questions from a parent, sister, Doctor......there is a book my mom got for me when I was going through the start of puberty called "Whats Happening to Me", it helped me maybe it will help you.