How often should I have sex till I loosen up?!
Question: I'm Asian virgin and he is white. It doesn't fit and it hurts like a steel is trying to get in, and it feels so uncomfortable when it tries to stretch like I'm being torn apart.
Answers: I'm Asian virgin and he is white. It doesn't fit and it hurts like a steel is trying to get in, and it feels so uncomfortable when it tries to stretch like I'm being torn apart.
Every woman needs lubrication to have sex. This happens naturally by being aroused. If you feel you are sufficiently turned on by the time he starts, and are still not wet enough, make sure he uses some lubrication, especially since it's your first time. He is probably not that large, but the first time can feel like that, and it will get better with time.
It could be you're not becoming turned on enough because you are nervous about it, or he is not working hard enough on foreplay beforehand, or he's trying to force it in too fast. Make sure to tell him to go slow and take his time.
And, after the first time, it will feel better because your hymen will be broken, which is the most painful part.
ask him to wear lube and to go slowly the first couple of times, you will eventually lossen up over time
well have him keep it in and minimise actual penetration... you will loosen up...... try being on top and controlling it... try flexing your legs once he gets in... he cant get in as far
sounds like he's not doing his job right. you have to be wet and aroused before penetration, especially if it's your first time. it will hurt the first time because the lose of your hymen is painful, but the pain goes away quickly(soon as he's in, make him stop, and just let you get used to it) after that..well, enjoy as much as you want to
you dont sound ready - first you and your man will have to arouse you. when you are aroused you will the opposite. if your man can't understand this, he is inexperienced too.