Why do we women do this???!
Question: Why do we sabotage a potential relationship. I'm a 20 something year old woman and i feel that i sometimes sabotage a potential relationship. I can do this by picking on fights..or i just simply drift away.Whats wrong with me...am i the only one? I'm somewhat aware that im afraid of getting hurt..but i want to love again..yet i do this. I wasn't abandoned as a little girl or were my parents divorced. They're still happily married. so why do i do this??
Answers: Why do we sabotage a potential relationship. I'm a 20 something year old woman and i feel that i sometimes sabotage a potential relationship. I can do this by picking on fights..or i just simply drift away.Whats wrong with me...am i the only one? I'm somewhat aware that im afraid of getting hurt..but i want to love again..yet i do this. I wasn't abandoned as a little girl or were my parents divorced. They're still happily married. so why do i do this??
You just haven't met the right person yet. When you do you won't pick fights. Hope you meet him soon
It's biological. You don't usually sense or understand it consciously, but you were "testing" your potential mates.
You are either testing them because you have been in a bad relationship....or your afraid that they will find something wrong with you ...so you pick at them first!
Maybe you're afraid you won't have the happily married thing like your parents do. Maybe you don't think you could measure up to them. Maybe you're still too young to be in a relationship and just interested in the chase. Or you could have too high of standards and are just unrealistic in your expectations of a mate. Pick it apart and see what you find about yourself.
You seem to have a deep seated fear of relationships.
I think you would benefit from going to see a councilor either at church (might be free) or a private practice.
Something as important as this should be addressed.
Good Luck!
Most women are like that. No reason or excuse, just strange behavior. It could be hormones, stress???? or just mentally unstable. You can't change it or if you do you'll be the 1st women in modern history who did!
Its not that you haven't found the right person. Women will pick fights with a guy they love to death. It doesnt matter.
I'm not saying men are innocent but women love to play games, they love confrontation and want to know they have some sort of power over men. Stop mind fukking us. When you want to be a biatch, do it somewhere else.