Are stretchmarks a turn off?!
Question: I have had two lovely kids but they were both big babies and I have been left with marks all over the bottom half of my tummy. Their Dad was never bothered by them, which I understood as they were caused by our kids but now I'm single I am worried it may put guys off. Are stretchmarks only okay on the mother of your kids and would you be put off if you were with a woman who already had marks from previous pregnancies?
Answers: I have had two lovely kids but they were both big babies and I have been left with marks all over the bottom half of my tummy. Their Dad was never bothered by them, which I understood as they were caused by our kids but now I'm single I am worried it may put guys off. Are stretchmarks only okay on the mother of your kids and would you be put off if you were with a woman who already had marks from previous pregnancies?
Any guy worth having just won't care. Having babies is hard, and you've earned the right to bear the marks of it.
Any guy you date will be dating you, your motherhood, and the ways that motherhood affected your body. Some guys won't want the whole package - I'd say "screw them," but they don't deserve the pleasure.
Anyone who's worth being with isn't going to be concerned. Katie, you're more than the sum of your stretchmarks...know your worth and make sure you don't waste time on those who don't.
Oh, they're SERIOUS marks? Let me rethink.
Sorry, my previous answer stands.
not at all, just dont think much about it..... it is just normal to occur for all mothers.....t
It is the person that is important' stretch marks do not bother me.
Now, if we talk about toe gunk, well..............
I dont think they are a turnoff, but im not a man. I think they are badges of honor bc you bore your two kids and they couldnt be helped. I know women who straved themselves while pregnant in order to not get big and their kids came out under norished and sickly. I think thats unattractive.
it doesn't matter i guess, cuz me i also have stretch marks on that part and my friends and my bf still find me sexy even with those stretch mark, so try to shape up ur body and just dont mind about the marks, feel sexy and beautiful :)
No i don't think that stretchmarks are a turn off. i have dated women that have stretchmarks but they have never been over weight. some girls have been over weight with stretchmarks but either way i didn't get turned off. to tell you the truth i thought they were kinda hot. i wouldn't worry about them if i was you.
If the guy cares about you, he shouldn't be bothered by them. Get to know him well; don't have sex too early on..
I have stretch marks, and just had one kid.. I gained 70 lbs during my pregnancy, though. :o
I've been self-conscious about them, though they aren't that* noticable.. but just try not to pay much attention to them. The more you stare at them, the worse you'll feel. Focus on other things; things you do feel good about.
Some women get tummy tucks post-pregnancy.. to get rid of loose skin, and when the stretch marks are in the area yours are, they're often cut away during surgery. I wouldn't recommend it, but it is an option.
http://www.plasticsurgery4u.com/procedur...
Honestly... a little bit
I have terrible stretch marks and I feel really self concious about them because before the baby I had the body of a goddess! However a real man would be mature enough to accept you for you. Glamour is not guaranteed for life so if he wants you for the way you look then more than likely he will easily be attracted to other good looking people
Make sure your vagina looks really hot and he wont notice your stretch marks. I am being serious.