Taste and smell... Please read.?!
Question: My boyfriend doesn't like to go down on me because my taste is really strong, but at the same time he wants to because it smells good. I don't know how or why it is so strong, I think it's because I get so excited I get really wet and so much of it causes it to taste strong. I've tried only eating this, and only drinking that. It doesn't work. Is there a medication I can take for this that I need to talk to my gynecologist with? Also, is it abnormal to have a lot of "happy fluids" coming from down there before I even hit the O?
Answers: My boyfriend doesn't like to go down on me because my taste is really strong, but at the same time he wants to because it smells good. I don't know how or why it is so strong, I think it's because I get so excited I get really wet and so much of it causes it to taste strong. I've tried only eating this, and only drinking that. It doesn't work. Is there a medication I can take for this that I need to talk to my gynecologist with? Also, is it abnormal to have a lot of "happy fluids" coming from down there before I even hit the O?
Have you tried increasing your water intake and eating pineapple? Trim your hair short, it could be trapping the fluids that are strong. If he's focused on your clitoris, the taste shouldn't be as strong there. And it's not abnormal to have a lot of fluid - it's supposed to happen when you get sexually aroused. He could use a towel to soak up some of the excess.
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That's too bad because you're very natural. He needs to learn how to appreciate what you taste & smell like, and you don't need to change a thing. He's missing out....
And no it's normal to have a lot of fluids down there before your orgasm even
the last question: yes it is normal the happy fluids before the grand finally. About the smell and taste, personally my bf likes my fluids on some days of my cycle, some days its stronger and other days its good. Could that be your case? have you tried it every day? maybe some day it doesnt have the same taste.
It's usually the other way around. Where its the strong scent that CAN be a turn off.
I for one like both.
Hmmm they say smell has a lot to do with taste. So thats kinda odd that he likes the smell yet not the taste!
Do you shave or stay hairy? I prefer hairy or trimmed.
I never had that problem My ex loved going down...But I agree try every day maybe is closer time of month that causes a stronger taste
check with doc. but seems to me your bf is the one that has a problem ! normal...... butcher......
I agree with milan77.
Thanx for painting this very lovely picture. Maybe you're BF can drink something or put something on his tongue to dull his taste buds. Just make sure it's not something that will burn you. Have fun.
Try having tuna salad and see if that helps.
The scent is a wonderful thing - no wonder he likes it so much.
If he doesn't have a lot of experience giving oral sex, he might still be dealing with the novelty. (I remember that it took a little while to learn to like it - love it now). Taking a shower right before sex might help, and is lot's of fun anyway.