Greek girl in serious vagina trouble, please help!!?!
Question: Ok I am Greek and Christian. I am getting married to a great Greekguy. Please don't report me this is real. I wanted to know if I could dermabond or surgically repair my hymen myself. Maybe just a little glue. I heard mid wives us dermabond when a women give birth to repair her. So why can't I? Please help, no moral judgement and I can't tell him he will dump me please. Thanks
Answers: Ok I am Greek and Christian. I am getting married to a great Greekguy. Please don't report me this is real. I wanted to know if I could dermabond or surgically repair my hymen myself. Maybe just a little glue. I heard mid wives us dermabond when a women give birth to repair her. So why can't I? Please help, no moral judgement and I can't tell him he will dump me please. Thanks
No you can not dermabond your hymen but you could have it surgically repaired.. But this is rather silly because hymens break alllll the time on there own.. girls are active these days..
He will not know your not a virgin unless you tell him.. If he asks why you did not bleed during sex, tell him that alot of womans hymens break before sex from normal activities like bike riding , sports, masterbation ect..
But i doubt he will even notice that..
p.s. Its really absolutly none of his buisness if you had sex before but if he can't handle the truth is he worth it? although on the other hand I understand the pressures of certain races or religions to be a virgin, so if u lie i think god will forgive you.. ask his forgiveness , not your to be hubbies
ew wtf? why would you want to glue your hymen? *shudders*
There are lots of ways a hymen can be broke besides sex. Do you ride a bike? Play sports or anything like that? Maybe you can find an excuse that way.
Do you really want to start your marriage off with a lie?
I didn't have a hymen because I played hard sports and used tampons, does that make a woman less valuable?
Look, if you're serious...only a gyn can rebuild your hymen. Don't jepordize your health using glue. What would you glue? Won't he feel tricked if a hard chunk of glue fell out?
You need to re-think this, hun.
Please don't try this you will only damage yourself!
Many girls don't have a hymen at all, or tear theirs when they are very young through some other activity like gymnastics or sport, he honestly won't assume you're not a virgin...unless he knows nothing about the female body, and if that's the case, you better just tell me what I've just explained!
Wow... All I can say is I don't think glue would be a very good choice. It does not sound like it could be a healthy choice at all. Maybe you should be honest... That is key for maintaining a good and healthy relationship. Good Luck
He probably won't even notice! Women's hymen can be torn by things other than sex, too. For example, using tampons, athletics (stretching, gymnastics, even running or playing organized sports).
I wouldn't try to fix it myself if I were you. The skin down there is a very sensative organ and you could seriously hurt yourself!
I lost mine when I was a baby playing in a sandbox. Im not being judgemental, but I doubt he's a virgin either!
Umm glue? I don't think so. If he cares about that so much and he is willing to leave you because of it then I don't think he's worth it. But then again how can you be so sure he won't be understanding. And he probably isn't going to even notice. And plenty of girls break it playing sports or from gymnastics and some don't even have one.
Um...no.
I've heard of some doctors doing "cosmetic" surgery to "repair" the hymen, but I think that is just stupid. You could ask a gyno if they know where to get that done at, but it's probably best to just leave it alone.
Your guy most likely won't know it's broken anyways. Most guys don't know stuff like that, and when it comes to sex, most guys don't even care. Besides, the hymen can break naturally just by doing everyday activities like working out and horseback riding. IF he does ever ask about it, and you don't want to tell the truth, just tell him it probably broke while you were working out one day.
If he will dump you because your hymen is broken, he's not worth marrying. There has to be an element of trust between couples.
How will he know your hymen is not intact? Is he a gyn? It's your body and it's none of his business. Don't worry about it and go on with your life from here.
on your wedding night, you could fill a gelatin capsue w/ blood or artificil blood and insert it in your vagina or just open it on the sheet.
much safer than dermabond.