I've never been able to have an orgasm. Any ideas as to what would help?!
Question: I had the same problem until I figured out that it was all about the position in wich you do it. I find that being on top gives you the power to lean forward or back in order to stimulate your clitoris while having sex. Also, I find that if you have the guy semi-sitting while you ride him it hits your clitoris just right and it's easier to orgasm. Since you say you can orgasm with a vibrator I think that exploring different positions while having sex will be your best bet to getting an orgasm while with a guy. Hope this helps.
Answers: I had the same problem until I figured out that it was all about the position in wich you do it. I find that being on top gives you the power to lean forward or back in order to stimulate your clitoris while having sex. Also, I find that if you have the guy semi-sitting while you ride him it hits your clitoris just right and it's easier to orgasm. Since you say you can orgasm with a vibrator I think that exploring different positions while having sex will be your best bet to getting an orgasm while with a guy. Hope this helps.
A vibrator used on the clitoris not inside the vagina... You don't need a dildo type one, just get a personal massager at a regular pharmacy like walgreens... conair makes one for under 20.00 trust me it'll work
get with a guy.
and fall in love.
It's all in the mind. Free your mind. There's a lot of stuff in there.
well wait like 2 days before you do it again
First do it when nobody is at home so you could do it with more confidence. Get a vibrator (if not, use your fingers) and lie down in the bed. Then, put a towel in the bed just in case (because if you are lucky enough to have a female ejaculation [it's said to feel great], you could wet all the bed. Then, get a porno movie or just go to the internet and you'll find plenty of it. Start watching it, use the vibrator on your clitoris, or if you don't have one, softly rub it. And start slowly and just concentrate in the movie. Forget about everything and give pleasure to yourself till you have an orgasm.
Most girls do not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse. It happens with direct manual/oral/toy stimulation to the clitoris. Hand held body massagers and shower massager help too.