Giving off A Sexual Aura?!
Question: My friends say I give men the sexual aura.
I do no dress provacatively, nor do I flirt or try to attract anyone.
I am also a virgin, so how could I possibly give a sexual aura?
Just wondering. Is it something I can't see maybe men can, or is it chemistry? Just wondering?
Answers: My friends say I give men the sexual aura.
I do no dress provacatively, nor do I flirt or try to attract anyone.
I am also a virgin, so how could I possibly give a sexual aura?
Just wondering. Is it something I can't see maybe men can, or is it chemistry? Just wondering?
Hi- Ok--I want you to picture Angelina Jolie. Not all that we know about her and her kinky sexuality, but how she acts during interviews. Despite sitting there with a long sleeve shirt (high collar) and knee length skirt on, she simply oozes sex. This is because A) she's a babe, and B) she utilizes a variety of basic body language gestures that are sexual in nature, yet not overt.
I am guessing that even as a virgin, and despite how pretty you may or may not be, you are subconsciously flirting without knowing it. Biologically, we are programmed to attract mates, and have developed a wide variety of skills to preen and show off our assets to the opposite sex. Ms. Jolie knows how to work hers to full effect without seeming obvious about it. Others, maybe such as yourself, are doing it without realizing it.
You don't have to dress like a hootchie-mama or hang all over some guy to be flirty or give off a sexual vibe. More subtle sexual signals include playing with your hair, holding a man's gaze then looking away, touching your collarbone, tilting your head, placing your hands/fingers near your face, mouth, neck...etc...these are all subtle primitive indicators that you are drawing his eye to your lips, your vulnerable sexy neck, your luscious hair--it is, esentially, primal flirting.
Thus, you may be giving off a seriously luscious aura unintentionally. Now that you know, you can make the choice to either work it a la Angelina, or nip it in the bud.
Personally, I'd go do yo' thang chickenwang ;)
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well i don't know you,
so its hard to say
=)
Wow, i feel it from here. I think i am getting wood from this.
they are just trying to get into your pants
you're probably just very confident
You might have a nice body, unintentional flirtateous personality, or ... are you always sucking on popsicles?
so how old are you friends? probably 14 or 15.
i wouldn't trust their 'wise' and 'experienced' opinions.
Could be pheromones. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean that you don't give them off. When you are ovulating your body secretes them and men pick up on it as their cue to mate. It's like the human female's way of going into heat.
a couple of friends have said that in the past about me, its like wen a guy looks at a girl he can see wifey material one night standers or jus girlfriends (this is just my opinion) lol and wen guys used to look my way they would always direct there eyes frm my chest down to my crotch area! sooo emmbarrasing! anyways its not somethink that guys can see its just like wat they notice about a girl like you they notice you in a sexual way? hope ive helped n not confused u?!? think ive confused me lol..xx
It can be something that you don't know that you do. Obviously your friends notice it, and people have different definitions of flirting. You could just be very friendly, so everyone likes you. But, just because people think you're sexy doesn't make you easy. If you feel good about yourself, continue to act the way that makes you comfortable.
Maybe the fact that your not a promiscuous woman and you sont dress sexy makes you desirable. Regardless of what people think men dont always jump at girls wearing mini skirts and low cut tops...some men like girls that are conservative and sweet....you know, the girl he can take home to mom and dad! I think the fact that you are a virgin and you still have your innocence makes you more desirable to men because you havent been with another man. You seem more pure than other women you have been with alot of men or have more experience...So dont be weirded out by it...its a good thing!! I wish I stil had my innocence...however, I am married and have a two year old daughter who is my world! So I guess I dont have it so bad,and neither do you! Make sure you find the right guy though, and dont settle for a guy who just wants to take your virginity! Good luck....
Sounds to me like you are all very young. It's probably just a phrase they heard somewhere that they were dying to use and are just teasing you. Or they are trying to compliment you and tell you that you're sexy.
We call it "sexual energy." It's a real thing. People who are the most obvious about it are women at bars who are all over guys. Heck, one time, my husband and I were sitting at a table in a coffee shop. This chick came up (she was wearing a sweater and jeans - so, not a skanky dresser or anything) and she walks right up to my husband and introduces herself. Bold as brass. Then she flirts with him! She's all like, "Ooooooh, I heard your accent, where are you from? Australia?" Then he gets mad because he hates being mistaken for Australian (he's from New Zealand). Anyway, then he's gestures to me and tells her I'm his wife. Then this chick looks at me, sneers a little bit and actually goes back to flirting with him! What?!??!! So, I politely tell her that she is intruding on our conversation and would she please leave.
THAT is a chick with sexual energy (or aura).
Another type of sexual energy is found in younger kids who have been sexually abused. I worked in an abuse clinic for many years. You could always tell the kids who had been sexually molested because they were just more sexually "aware" I guess. Many of them wanted to sit on your lap all the time, or carress your hand. It was rather unnerving. How do you tell a little ten year old that she's freaking you out with her touchy-feeliness?
People who are touchy-feely, also get the label of having a sexual aura.
Maybe you're the only one in your group comfortable talking to boys. Maybe you're athletic and happy in your body. Maybe you're naturally pretty and friendly. If it's your female friends talking, they might be jealous. If its your male friends saying it, then maybe the other girls aren't as comfortable, happy, and friendly around boys as you are.
An "aura" is kind of vague. I suspect it's more in the way they look than in what they actually see.