Ladies, how can I politely tell my wife that her feminine odor (vaginal) slightl!
Question: It's not horribly stinky, but sometimes it's noticeable, and not during or after sex either. I don't know how to tell her nicely.
Answers: It's not horribly stinky, but sometimes it's noticeable, and not during or after sex either. I don't know how to tell her nicely.
Ask her to shower or bath with you and while you're in there together pay particular attention to that area. At least you'll know it's getting washed!
If it is her natural order I would just say dont tell her. If it is just her body's smell then you should have known before you married her.
IF it's something more serious then this is how I would like my husband to tell me I stink 'down there'.
While we're doing our funky thing he could just sort of say, hey are you feeling alright? I just noticed that you smell a little stronger than normal down below.
If its norm for her she'll shrug it off and if its a problem she'll appreciate your concern and hopefully go to the doc!
Good luck..touchy subject :/
Start out with "How about these diamond earrings babe!!! .. oh by the way.."
just say, hey hon, your puZZy stinks, go take a shower!
maybe you could suggest taking a shower together.
just buy her some smell goods for down there and tell her to wear it because you love the way it smells...
What you say to her is not gonna be near as important as HOW you say it. Use your most tender sweet loving voice, and just tell her in words similiar to what you have said here, no condemnation or UUGH language
Jewerly may help depending on what type of woman she is. Me on the other hand i wouldnt feel any better. There's this new stuff out called "rephresh." you used to have to have a perscription for it but now you dont. (Go to any pharmacy or walgreens) Ive never used it but i just saw it advertised and it's for women to use after they have their period, sex, after they dousch. I guess it helps with odor and itch.
So my advice would be just to sit down and talk to her let her know about some ways to help with it.
Dont tell her its nasty and turns you off. just that you noticed it.
If you buy her something then you tell her your prolly gonna embaress her and make her feel like the problem is so horrible that you had to go out and get a gift so she wasnt mad at ya.
Just be open and let her know.
Good luck!
huny your vagina smells... If you dont fix it, well i am going to get a divorce with you.
Sometimes girls coochies stink before they start their period.
Or it could be because she doesn't clean it everyday in the shower.
Clothes pin on the nose is usually subtle, but effective in getting your message across.
if your wife is really sinsitive then you may want to keep it to yourself, there is always something that u may know about your spouse that u know not to say because it may hurt their feelings. but if you have a really open relationship with her and you can say or talk about anything without her taking it as an insult then i'm sure u can find a way to word it. an easy way to do it is if you all are sitting around just talking. and u notice that she doesn't smell to good. u can start sniffing the air and saying what's that smell, smell your underarms and then start smelling her. if it's her then just say you're not to fresh. and believe me, from that point on she will make sure her vagina is always fresh. Good luck dude!!
Buy her some Summer's Eve Liquid Soap. I swear it will get rid of the smell. Put it in the shower, so you and her can use to wash your private areas.
Good luck!
Natters actually has a very good point about how a strong smell could be a symptom of some kind of infection, and that's something your wife may want to discuss with her doctor.
But I'm talking a STRONG smell here; if she's been getting regular checkups with her ob/gyn and everything's working fine, then it may just be...that's the way she smells. Someone's mentioned the product "rephresh", but actually a lot of cleansers and douches and "feminine deodorizers" are actually bad for your wife's health, as they would introduce a lot of chemicals into the area and upset the natural biochemical balance that keeps things healthy. If everything's working fine, and she's keeping clean, then...I'm not sure there's anything you can do.
You do say, though, that you didn't have sex before marriage; the best way I can politely ask this is, had you had any occasion to encounter any OTHER woman's feminine odor before this? If not, you may simply be a little unused to it, which is a common reaction I've heard in many men; but "that kind of turns me off" gradually turns into "wait, maybe it's not that bad" turns into "it's not like a rose or anything, but it means something VERY specific is going on and I do like THAT fact", and that can finally lead to the smell turning you ON, because you've just learned to associate that particular smell with "whee, sex!"