I really need help ( serious answers only)?!
Question: i lost my virginty to this boy we arent dating were just friends!
but he plays this little game or whatever he call it but one min he with me then the next min he with this other girl! so i told myself that i wasnt gonna be his fool anymore so me an him havent been in a relationship since summer time! and we have had sex a few times ( with a condom)! but anyway he asked me to go back with him an i said no were betta as friends an i told him i didnt want him 2 leave me or whatever! so he said cool.. and he always tell me he love me n i say it back! but i just found out he back with her again!
What should i do?
Answers: i lost my virginty to this boy we arent dating were just friends!
but he plays this little game or whatever he call it but one min he with me then the next min he with this other girl! so i told myself that i wasnt gonna be his fool anymore so me an him havent been in a relationship since summer time! and we have had sex a few times ( with a condom)! but anyway he asked me to go back with him an i said no were betta as friends an i told him i didnt want him 2 leave me or whatever! so he said cool.. and he always tell me he love me n i say it back! but i just found out he back with her again!
What should i do?
call him and ask him what do he want from you
honey,let him go. hes playing u for a fool. u are better then that and u deserve better. so for him ..JUST SAY NO!
Sounds like a lot of drama, if you are into all that heaad game stuff then play along, if not, find someone who wants to be with you, and only you.
In my opinion spare yourself the heartache and move on.
You really need to work on your typing/language skills. I can hardly even understand what you are asking here.
i dont know
Can't you see this jerk is only using you for s*x?
ditch the loser. there are TOO many guys in the world. expand your circle. go to different places and meet new people.
and keep sex something between you and your husband.
Well since he even started the game don't go with him he is a jerk and it is very rare for someone to actually marry the person they lost there virginity to! (unless they were a virgin when married)
its hard to give a "serious answer" to a seriously dumb question. What should you do? Grow up and learn how to spell. If you cant figure out what you SHOULD do then maybe you should stop doing ADULT acts.
well he doesnt sound like a very nice guy. sounds very young and immature. if you continue to play this game with him you will only get hurt more in the end. i think you should cut him loos now and try to get over him as best you can. honey hes not worth your time or your tears. tell him you need all of him or youre fine without any of him.
I think you could do alot better i'm not sure if you love him but if so i think you should talk to him and try one more time to have a relationship but if he dosn't go for it move on you could do so much better i think good luck
Really??? Are you really having a problem with this? He did it before, is doing it again...if you like drama and heartache by all means stay with him, or get on with your life.
Trust me, life gets easier AFTER Jr. High.
Girl i know exactly how you feel i went through almost this exact thing. Due to the fact that he took your v card you're always going to feel for him its just human instincts. but he is treating you like **** you need to leave him b/c it's not healthy to be that unhappy. you need to move on and put him (friendship too) in the past. i hope this helps you let me know if it doesnt i will try again.
Your dating someone who is pretending to be a player, he does it to go brag to his friends + he's horny, you need to put your foot down and explain to him your not like this, you have a reputation to keep, you are in control not he.
Honey, you need to let him go, and don't have sex before you're married. That will save you a lot of heartache and guys will respect you more. This guy cleary is just using you. Let him go and move on. One day a guy will come along who cares about YOU and not sex. If he really loves you he will wait for you and respect you. This boy has no respect. There are better people out there. Get over him and move on to better things.
he just wants you for the booty. Any guy that thinks he needs more than one chick to make him happy is an idiot. dump him immediately. Not even worth being a friend.
Don't give yourself up so easily. He wants the sex when he can't get it from her. I am sorry, but this is what we call using people.
Your going to want better for yourself, so let him go and kick him to the curb.
You will thank yourself later in life. When you get older and get with the man you are going to marry its easier to explain how you didn't sleep with very many people rather then telling them you slept with a lot of people. So think very carefully about who you sleep with.
Most relationships don't last past the highschool level, so this is a good time to focus on school. Find someone in college, when you get there. It will be more likely to last and to turn into something real.
he is typical young boy... you know what, keep your distance with him.
He is not you can put trust anyway, and if you still carry on dating him you will regreat a lot so better is just forget him.
move on...
life is beautiful , you will find someone who loves you ....
my advise dont even bother to be friend with him , coz its a way for him to keep coming back to you.....
if he loves you , he would never run after other girls and trust is main in any relationship, he has broken twice and he will keep doing that to you
so just say f.. off and move on with your life..
good luck love...
i do understand its very hard to forget him specially you had your first experience with him but time is best medicine..
i have been through very similar situation thats why telling you..
Girl u are right the same thing has happened to me millions of times I was a fool for a guy becuz we had sex.
Now I am not a virgin or anything close to it becuz I am expecting but always remember u can never trust a guy
What u do is u make him ur fool and u make him live for u!!!
I did that I gave up sex and turned to Jesus and this guy that I was with has changed all the way around and is all about me.
But once u have him wrapped around ur finger u won't want him anymore believe me!!!!
It happened to me now I am with a wonderful guy named mark and he is giving me everything I want so take my advice and u be the boss!!!!
u now wat girl hes a good 4 nothin playa so tellhim to get a fu**in life and tell him 2 go have fun wit dat hoe
if u love him..it can be really hard to 4ger about him..cut off ALL sources to him! earase his number out of ur fone! ask ur friends to not talk about him around u and quit saying "guess who i saw to day..??" ull no ur ovr him wen ur not mad at him any more..u jusr dont care..being made shows u still have at leats a little bit of feeling for him let.
Dump him and don't have sex with him again.
There are better guys out there.
Leave him, immediately.
You deserve better