I just wanna cry?!


Question: nothing going how i want it to go!

i had sex with my bestfriend/he is a boy!
and yes he was my first but he was in this relationship with this girl and before we had sex i used to give him adivce on their relationship or whatever! then they broke up a while aago! and now they back 2gether! it makes me wanna cry i kinda wanna go with him but then agian i like our friendship!
i dont want him with her!!!
i just wanna cry


Answers: nothing going how i want it to go!

i had sex with my bestfriend/he is a boy!
and yes he was my first but he was in this relationship with this girl and before we had sex i used to give him adivce on their relationship or whatever! then they broke up a while aago! and now they back 2gether! it makes me wanna cry i kinda wanna go with him but then agian i like our friendship!
i dont want him with her!!!
i just wanna cry

first of all
dont cry!
2nd of all if thats
ur guy bestfriend!
then hes gonna be in ur life
for a min

If he had broken up before he had sex with you it was just to make him feel better. Sorry.

You need to talk to someone.. a girl best friend.. or maybe even a "close" neighbor friend.. or somebody..

sounds like you need to vent before you can clear your mind and think straight about what you need to do to deal with this situation..

Sorry I can't help you directly with this, but It's a very personal and sensitive issue. All I can say is, Talk to someone.

It's tough.. you don't want to ruin the friendship, but it could be so much more if you go for it.
Most of the best relationships are with someone you were friends with first.

Good Luck :)

Keep him as a friend with benefits.

alright alright now .......... Life will go on........you sound young ....so you don't know this yet........ you will look back at this time and think how silly you are to want to cry. But anyway.......... just be friends. Make LOVE when you are with the man of you life. Your just too young right now and that is why you feel this way.

The line was crossed and there is no turning back and trust me it will not be the last time. You shared something special and are still friends which is great. Many times, once friends cross that line the friendship suffers. You will just have to let him be. Be his friend, be there for him when he needs your shoulder. But try your very best not to cross that line again. Each time will be more difficult to recover from then the last.

make up your mind sweetie, do you want to be his friend or his girlfriend. sounds to me you are in love or you are just in jealous

Every girl deserves to be with someone who wishes to be with her...not just to be with her because it's easy, but who wishes to be with her even when it isn't. I know it's easy for me to say so, but don't waste your tears on someone who isn't addicted to your smile, your laugh, your very essence. Every girl who loves fully deserves to be loved fully, wholly, completely in return.

he wuz usin u as a rebound gf..he need to feel like he;s not wrothless..u mite ask him about it..that happend to me and my friend but now ere just friends..we dont think anything of it..were just frinds..ull get ovr it..but tallk 2 him

talk to the guy and see what he thinks and what is he planning to do.





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