After miscarriage help...?!
Question: i had a miscarriage in december, and to be honest, i wasnt sure if i was going to keep it or not (probably not) because i was only 15 at the time and it was a big drunken mistake and i was on holiday so didnt have the chance to get emergency contraception but anyway i only told two of my friends and they were the most supportive they could of been but its nearly two months after and im still feeling really upset about it from time to time and just crying sometimes but i cant really tell anyone cos it feels no-one will understand and i dunno is it normal or not..? it feels i just cant talk to anyone about it and today i had the day off school cos i was upset and the first thing one of my friends said to me was 'skiver' and i ended up having a go at her....any advice? sorry its really random but no lectures please ...
Answers: i had a miscarriage in december, and to be honest, i wasnt sure if i was going to keep it or not (probably not) because i was only 15 at the time and it was a big drunken mistake and i was on holiday so didnt have the chance to get emergency contraception but anyway i only told two of my friends and they were the most supportive they could of been but its nearly two months after and im still feeling really upset about it from time to time and just crying sometimes but i cant really tell anyone cos it feels no-one will understand and i dunno is it normal or not..? it feels i just cant talk to anyone about it and today i had the day off school cos i was upset and the first thing one of my friends said to me was 'skiver' and i ended up having a go at her....any advice? sorry its really random but no lectures please ...
Having a miscarriage is a terrible thing...no matter what your age. The emotional costs can be terrible, and effect you for a long time. Im very sorry that this has happened to you :(
Have you tried a support group? Even online. There is a wonderful sight, www.babyfit.com they have message boards, and miscarriage support boards...the women there can help you understand, and give you sound advice. If anything, it just helps to talk to people who have been through it.