Painful sex- any advice?!
Question: I often find sex quite painful- and before you say anything, both me and my boyfriend have been checked for STDs, and we're both clean! The thing is, my boyfriend is really big- about 10 inches long and an inch and a half across- and no matter how much lube we use I still end up getting sore and sometimes torn. Is there anything else we can do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
Answers: I often find sex quite painful- and before you say anything, both me and my boyfriend have been checked for STDs, and we're both clean! The thing is, my boyfriend is really big- about 10 inches long and an inch and a half across- and no matter how much lube we use I still end up getting sore and sometimes torn. Is there anything else we can do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
they have these things that go on the base of the penis that control how deep he can go, fixing th problem of him being too big, because he can thrust just as hard for stimulation, without worrying about holding back.
I freakin' HATE him..... whyyyyyyy
10 inches?! No wonder it's painful. Maybe if he only went 3/4 of the way in.
You didn't say how big you are, but obviously, you must be built petite. I don't think there's an answer. Maybe an OBGYN doctor could help.
just tell him to go slow, and use ALOT of lube!!!!
try different ways, him on top, u on top.. might help.
Good Luck
There isnt much you will be able to do cause of his size. Over time it should get better. Learn how to manage yourself after. Take baths, and showers right after. Oh, sex in the shower should help as well! The water seems to sooth it.
And stick to the easiest positions. Missionary, you on top. Avoid doggy, or any type of stretched out positions.
you must be TIGHT