Losing my virginity to my boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 19.?!
Question: I reallyyyyy reallyyy love him. We fool around a lot and we've gone pretty far but not actual sex. I'm a virgin, and he's not but he's really sweet and caring. I don't want to sound stupid and say no. What can I do to make this special
thnxx <3
i already asked this once but i want answers on how to make it special
thanks
Answers: I reallyyyyy reallyyy love him. We fool around a lot and we've gone pretty far but not actual sex. I'm a virgin, and he's not but he's really sweet and caring. I don't want to sound stupid and say no. What can I do to make this special
thnxx <3
i already asked this once but i want answers on how to make it special
thanks
Do your parents like him?
I ask this, because if they find out you two are having sex (of course after you lose your virginity to him), and they don't like him, he can get in WORLDS of trouble and be arrested for statutory rape (UNLESS you are in a state that the Age Of Consent is 16).
You may "love" him and all that, but a 19 year-old that is interested in a 16 year old is a child molester by law and would be commiting a Felony which is punishable to State Prison time - NOT County Jail, so if you do love him, you shouldn't want to put him in that position. Love should be able to wait until you're legally old enough to consent to sex - even though I know many kids under 18 are doing it, but not many of them are doing it with adults.
first, are you sure you guys are ready for it? if no...i advice not yet, fool around but don't do sex yet. if yes... then making it special like doing it on a special place (not just your house or his) to make it memorable. A simple gesture of giving a gift would also be sweet. He should also do this sweet things to you (he's the guy!) Good luck and have some protection.
Wait til your older. Sorry, I know that's not what you want to hear but hindsight is 20/20 and those of us older know you are too young and when you are my age you will wish you had waited. If you don't, please protect yourself against pregnancy and STDs.
You should check out the laws of your state before you do it.
If you don't know what would make it special for you, all our ideas won't matter. Relax, hopefully he will take care of you first. Most of us don't say with our first love, so make sure you make the right decision for yourself. You won't sound stupid if you say no. You will be smart.
hun, if you have sex with him now, you could get pregnant or worse. Don't forget, if you do get pregnant and they find out that the father is your 19 year old boyfriend they can charge him with rape and that'll be with him for the rest of his life. Like you can get an STD. Has he even been tested? Not only that, but even though you love him you could suffer deep depression. Is it really worth it?
Don't do it. You say you love him, and you probably do. You want to express your love and probably want to have sex for that right reason of sharing that with him. But, I speak from experience, he just wants to have sex. All boys/men are that way. It does not mean the same to him, his first experience has gone and went. And most likely, this relationship will not last.
Save this special time for when you are a little bit older and can answer this question for yourself. That might mean you might have a new man in your life. Especially if Mr 19 yr old can't respect your decision--and move on. Then--hey--that's ok. When a man has truly showed you romance and love, there should not be a lot of thought to this. And he will make your first time special, not you trying to figure it out.
if he really loves you he will wait another four years. what happened to the last girl he had sex with? Did he dump her as soon as he got her cherry? something to think about. Will he love you after he has had sex with you, or will he move on to the next virgin? You can only give your special gift one time, so make sure it is with someone you have known for a long time.
well unless you want him arrested for statutory rape, go for it! =D