GIRLS: how bad was it?!
Question: okay, i'm not looking for rude comments. i'm not going to have sex until i find the absolute right person. i'm not like half the girls my age who have already done it
but how bad does losing your virginity hurt? and won't there be a lot of blood involved? did you get through it the first try? was your guy understanding if it was too painfull?
again, no mean comments please
Answers: okay, i'm not looking for rude comments. i'm not going to have sex until i find the absolute right person. i'm not like half the girls my age who have already done it
but how bad does losing your virginity hurt? and won't there be a lot of blood involved? did you get through it the first try? was your guy understanding if it was too painfull?
again, no mean comments please
The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain. The first time, the guy was understanding that is was too painful and we stopped. He could not get in very far. We tried again the next day with more success.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, since the vagina has been an unused muscle, the first few times might make you feel sore or even hurt, especially if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay