I would like to know a GUY'S perspective on sex after vaginal childbirth.?!
Question: I am 29 with 2 kids, 5 years apart. My husband says I still feel great "down there" but I don't know if he's serious or just trying to be nice. I feel "loose", but am not sure if it's enough to be embarrassed about. The babies were both 6 pounds and easy labors. I didn't tear or need stitches. Is it possible to be "stretched" out? Or am I being paranoid. DH has no problem climaxing within a minute or two. My baby is 6 months old. I want a guys opinion on how sex feels to them after a birth! Thanks
Answers: I am 29 with 2 kids, 5 years apart. My husband says I still feel great "down there" but I don't know if he's serious or just trying to be nice. I feel "loose", but am not sure if it's enough to be embarrassed about. The babies were both 6 pounds and easy labors. I didn't tear or need stitches. Is it possible to be "stretched" out? Or am I being paranoid. DH has no problem climaxing within a minute or two. My baby is 6 months old. I want a guys opinion on how sex feels to them after a birth! Thanks
personally after not having sex for so long after birth..alot fo self love...i really didn't pay attention to it...when you miss it down there for so long...the 'looseness' didn't matter...but i can tell you it does retract..the stretching part...
when u wonder abt these things u becmone more n more paranoid...
if ur mans telling you that you feel good then beleive it.
dont forget ur not the only one thats going thru the concept of sex after kids, pretty much most women have this thought process, trick is to be confident, cuz thats wat a man likes to enjoy. a confident woman who shows pride in her body. show urself off woman. im sure ur beatiful, and ur man knows it! :) xx
Ok, so I'm not a guy, but...if you aren't getting any complaints and he's climaxing easily, why are you so worried?
If you aren't getting as much pleasure out of it, you could exercise your vaginal muscles by doing kegels. One of my friend's new GYN, didn't believe she'd ever had children (she'd had two), because she does kegels frequently.
hi
its often no different for us as the vagina will "go back" in time. If you really want to tighten that area up then do some core\ yoga central\ bower abdominnal excercises
the word vagin.aaaaaaa alone turns me off try using the p word
Try not worrying, All will be ok.
My wife had 2 vaginal births and i honestly think my wife feels just as good now as she did before the kids. Love is the biggest part of feeling right, if you do it for his pleasure he will love it even if it feels like a hot dog in a hallway