I don't feel like a woman?!
Question: Being a 34A/AA I'm near as damnit flatchested, I'm 17 and I know I'm not to grow any bigger unless I have children because I share an identical body frame to my mum and I haven't grown since I was 14.
Some helpful advice from people with similar experiences please? :(
Answers: Being a 34A/AA I'm near as damnit flatchested, I'm 17 and I know I'm not to grow any bigger unless I have children because I share an identical body frame to my mum and I haven't grown since I was 14.
Some helpful advice from people with similar experiences please? :(
As someone who was a nearly A until I had a baby, its really not so bad. The bigger they are, the heavier and the more in the way. You don't want all the aches and backpains, and to be all saggy when you get old. Sometimes it can be discouraging seeing all those barbie dolls walking around, but just keep in mind, boobs are nothing but stored fat... or silicone! I'd just as soon not have all that extra fat on my body!
Push up bras or water bras are nice for smaller breasted women. Also, there are a lot of men who prefer smaller chested women. Something about a mouthful or something or another...Love yourself and people will love you for it!
hahahaha...I wish I got bigger after having my daughter...and I did while I was breastfeeding, but they went right back to a B after I stopped BF. I am saving up money to get my breasts enlarged, it sucks being small on top, and your right....I just don't feel like all woman :(
trust me it's better to be flat then have huge boobs. you can never find a bra that fits, plus you might have to speacial order them and they tend to cost a lot more. you can't find many shirts that aren't too revialing, and guys just don't stop checking you out. that may seem good, but it can get really annoying at times, and sometimes scary.
I'm a 36B and it took me years to come to terms with my body. I have a big butt and no chest. Your young and in my opinion our society puts pressure on females to have a certain body. We are all made the way we are for a reason!!!! One thing I've learned is that even the prettiests woman has some kind of issue with her body. Be proud of who you are and don't let anyone tell you that your not beautiful because we all are!!
I'm exactly the same size and am 20! I used to hate it but now I wear padded bras all the time so no-one knows unless it's someone I'm letting see me naked in which case they should know me well enough not to be judging me on my appearence.
It's just one of those things in life you learn to live with and at least we can hide it well. Having said that I have a friend who loves her small chest since she says it makes her feel less frumpy and more elegant so mabey in time you'll come to appreciate your figure.
Good luck. X
I answered this morning and will post briefly again. To Anonymous, these ladies all sound like they have the right direction. I obviously can not give you first hand experience, I am male =P but from a male's stand point, all posts above sound pretty straight to me. Keep it real =)