Torn Vagina?!
Question: Me and my boyfriend had sex last night, and I don't know if it's because he trusts when I was too dry, or he was too rough or something I dunno, but the skin between my vaginal hole and anus has a small tear in it.
It's nothing too too serious, it's just really irritating right now.
Is this normal? And, is there anyway I can speed up recovery so I can have sex again soon, or a way to ease the irritation?
Answers: Me and my boyfriend had sex last night, and I don't know if it's because he trusts when I was too dry, or he was too rough or something I dunno, but the skin between my vaginal hole and anus has a small tear in it.
It's nothing too too serious, it's just really irritating right now.
Is this normal? And, is there anyway I can speed up recovery so I can have sex again soon, or a way to ease the irritation?
That can happen pretty easily if it was a bit rough or not enough lube. I would recommend not putting any ointments or lotions onto it since its in a sensitive area, and you wouldnt want to upset the balance of the vagina and cause a yeast infection or anything from the ointment. SO I wouldn't use anything unless recommended by a doctor. Maybe just try to keep it clean and dry so that it has a chance to heal. Probably having sex again might irritate it, so maybe wait until it atleast doesnt hurt anymore. It's possible even if you try to have sex while the tear is still there, just getting it wet with lube might make it sting which will be a bit uncomfortable!
-Just read a comment above about baby oil, I honestly would not recommend this. Condoms can split and become weak from using oils., which is why you should always use water based lubricants. Also, some oils have other ingredients such as perfumes or scents such as lavendar, this is not really something you want to be putting in a senistive area like the vagina! Please dont use baby oil, anyone!
it's normal, just tone it down next time.
I thought you said Tom Vagina
I really have no clue.
But by the sounds of it, Don't have sex for awhile.
Defiantly, Go to a doctor.
HMMMM I don't know. rub some ointment on it
I would hold of a few days next time use lubricant if you have sex now it will irritate it
ill have to have a look at that
You may need to go to the doctors. It is very hard to heal there. Next time MORE lub.
Keep it clean and dry (as much as possible) , it will heal with time. If it becomes very sore or red then go to the doctor it could be an infection.
Women tear down there when giving birth and heal just fine, don't worry unless it becomes infected. Just make sure you give yourself plenty of time to heal=)
After I gave birth to my son, I used "witch hazel" pads. That will soothe the irritation. Use lube, and make sure he uses a condom, especially since you have an open sore.
That's common. It has a lot to do with not enough lubrication, but it also has to do with leverage.
To reach the G spot, the penis has to leverage itself off the Gooch(the area between the vaginal opening and the anus) and that helps put enough pressure on the G spot that you can effectively enjoy it.
A sad side effect of that position is as you mentioned, a torn or irritated(blistered, worn, etc) gooch.
I'd say try being on top so you can determine where everything goes, that way you can decide what feels good without hurting yourself. At least until you heal, and let him know about it as well..so he knows to be wary about wearing that area too much.
Next time, and for the rest of your sexually active life, use Johnson's Baby Oil...
That's never happened to me before but definitely wait until it's fully healed until you have sex again. When you have an open wound in that area it could make you more suseptable to disease even if he wears a condom.
Next time try some Ky jelly to make the experience go a little smoother.
There's probably not much you can do to speed up the healing other than maybe some polysporin to keep it from infecting. I'm sure you'll know when it's healed. Just leave it alone until then.
wow ummmmmmmm u should be fine maybe try some vagasil and when u do have sex again use some ky or something just to be safe if this is a problem could lead to something worse
Tears will typically heal on their own but if the pain gets worse or you notice anything out of the ordinary, see your doctor. Also, just use more lube and ask your bf to me more gentle.
It is possible that he could have went in you while you were dry get some vaseline and just used that to ease the irritation but I wouldn't have sex until it is healed. I actually Just went to my doctor the other day for the same reason But come to find out I had a yeast infection I did not have any signs of it But my doctor ran a test from the cut that is located the same place as yours So she gave me some cream if your irritating more than normal it could be a yeast infection. Good Luck But just try to hold out a little.
try using this and rock his world next time vagisil lubricate.
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Wonderful thats the price you pay for having sex! thats why im a virgin