Ask mom for birth control pills?!
Question: i am 15 years old and my mom and i are pretty close. i want to ask her for birth control pills, but i don't know what to say to her. i am afraid she will be really mad at me if i do. what do i need to say to her?
Answers: i am 15 years old and my mom and i are pretty close. i want to ask her for birth control pills, but i don't know what to say to her. i am afraid she will be really mad at me if i do. what do i need to say to her?
Try this. "Mom, I'm kinda nervous and I know you want to talk to me about this. I really think it's time that you help me understand about birth control." Once she picks her chin off her chest, she'll ask if why you need birth control at your age. What are you going to tell her? If you get upset, she'll lose it. If you stay calm and say, "Mom, I've been in a couple situations where I could have done a little more experimenting than I did. Don't question me about my judgment, please help me do the right thing. I need your input here."
Good luck. I think your mom will help you out with the best advice she can. If she can't, or you can't handle her becoming "a mom" over this issue, well, contact your doctor or clinic and tell the operator exactly what you need. They will be able to refer you to the right place to help you out.
good luckk...
i think there debating now to buy them in the shop. maybe go and wait... seeing as your 15...
Nobody gets mad about girls wanting birth control pills. They're just pills. They get *mad* about girls wanting to be sexually active. If you want to go on the pill for reasons other than as a contraceptive (such as for acne or for regulating your periods), just say so. Lots of girls do this.
If, however, you want the pill to prevent pregnancy, then you have to consider your life situation. If your mom doesn't approve of sex at your age, then she probably *will* be mad if you tell her that you're becoming sexually active. You'll have to use your own judgement to decide if the consequences of telling her are worth it. If she's likely to be understanding, then honesty and simplicity is always the best policy: "Mom, I've been having (or thinking of having) sex with my boyfriend. I'd like to look into taking the birth control pill".
there are many reasons people go on the pill, it could be to stabilize your period, clear up acne, as well as a method of birth control talk to your mom about putting you on it im sure she'd rather have you not become pregant at 15 as well many health clinics offer free birth control, go to your local health clinic and check it out
tell her you want to be responsible. in most states you can go to planned parenthood with out your parent's permission. i would look into that if i were you.
Well, if you want them because you are sexually active I would recommend waiting to have sex. But if you do, then make sure you still use condoms. However, birth control is used for many things. Hormone control, regulating periods, pms etc. So you can tell her you are having irregular periods or really bad pms and want to regulate it and that you think birth control would help. Good Luck!!
Yeah, I am close to my mom too, but if I asked her at that age she would have been super pissed off, and the guy would be gone.
for starters you need to tell her your not intending to have sex. and you understand that pregnancy is a consequence of sex. also are you just getting it for birth control or to regulate your periods if so let her know. plus you can always use the excuse you would be safe than sorry. for just incase. i dont think your mum would be mad i think she would be suprised she would probably be mad if she found out that you were on it with out her knowledge. you can always ask bout different types an the sideeffects.
and you can always use the but all the other girls are doin it line lol thats just a joke.
IT'S BETTER TO ASK NOW THAN END UP PREGNANT!!! JUST BE HONEST LET HER KNOW YOU WOULD RATHER BE SAFE THAN SORRY. BUT PLEASE REMEMBER!!! CONDOMS TOO! BC PILLS DON'T PREVENT DISEASE!!!