My boyfriend fingered me and there's blood or something. What's going on!
Question: He's fingered me before, and it's always been really good. But yesterday he tried it with two fingers and it hurt, but I told him to keep going because it was still good. But when I got home, there was something darkish-coloured on my thong and it didn't really smell like menstrual blood. Also, when I went to the washroom, there was something like a faint brown discharge, like the colour of dried blood. I'm definitely not on my period, so what's going on? I was wet enough, and he wasn't being rough at all. Also, it's a little painful still, like I can feel him fingering me with two fingers, but not clearly. I can still walk, stand, sit, lie down, etc. But the tiniest bit of pain is still there. He suggested that he popped my cherry, but I'm scared that it's more than that, like an infection of some sort. Maybe I'm overreacting.
Answers: He's fingered me before, and it's always been really good. But yesterday he tried it with two fingers and it hurt, but I told him to keep going because it was still good. But when I got home, there was something darkish-coloured on my thong and it didn't really smell like menstrual blood. Also, when I went to the washroom, there was something like a faint brown discharge, like the colour of dried blood. I'm definitely not on my period, so what's going on? I was wet enough, and he wasn't being rough at all. Also, it's a little painful still, like I can feel him fingering me with two fingers, but not clearly. I can still walk, stand, sit, lie down, etc. But the tiniest bit of pain is still there. He suggested that he popped my cherry, but I'm scared that it's more than that, like an infection of some sort. Maybe I'm overreacting.
It's not an infection....Since he's been doing this thing to you before and it wasn't the first time then sorry to say this but u aren't a virgin. The hymen...which is a thin piece if skin the covers the entrance to the vagina is sometimes easily broken..either by using a tampon...or getting fingered..... what u saw sounds like dried blood, he probably just scratched the inner wall of ur vagina with his finger nails,,you say u felt pain , so thats probably wot it was,,that and the fact that it was the first time he used two fingers....You sound young and inexperienced so be careful and make sure you fully understand the ins and outs of sex before u go the whole way..keep in mind that u aren't a virgin if he inserted the whole finger or fingers inside..but check it out with a doc to be sure....plus...when you do have sex for the first time make sure he wears a condom!...and that ur lubricated... good luck!
possibly be a man and let him fu*k u instead!
IS it because of your vagina's tightness. Before doing the same act tell your bf to cut off his nails. or try to wear condom on finger for softness. or use oil/lub.
Maybe you lost your virginity but to be safe you might want to go to the doctors and get checked out just to be safe.
It seems like you have a very tight ****. The membrane got torn since it had to adjust to fit the 2 fingers. All you need to do is to repeat it again and again to get your vagina used and at least be able to handle a penis in future and by so doing be able to enjoy sex!
when you have your cherry popped it just meens your hymen is broken its a thin piece of skin on the opening of your vagina. What probably happened was that he scratched you and you didnt feel it at the time. this has happened to me, you should be fine. use a condom even when he just use his fingers because you can still get stds especially Gardenella which is caused by cross contamination.