Cant seem to get it right - orgasm during intercourse?!
Question: am i the only person that finds both my and my partner's anatomies not conducive to an orgasm (for me) during sex? i mean clitoral, btw. what am i doing wrong? its like the right areas dont even come close to bumping together, and its too tiring for me to do all the grinding - i cant do it, my stomach and back get too tired!!! i get too tired being on top too and even that position doesnt seem to work too well despite what other ladies say about it working for them... WHAT THE HECK AM I DOING WRONG? please someone, explain! this seems like WAY too much work!!!
Answers: am i the only person that finds both my and my partner's anatomies not conducive to an orgasm (for me) during sex? i mean clitoral, btw. what am i doing wrong? its like the right areas dont even come close to bumping together, and its too tiring for me to do all the grinding - i cant do it, my stomach and back get too tired!!! i get too tired being on top too and even that position doesnt seem to work too well despite what other ladies say about it working for them... WHAT THE HECK AM I DOING WRONG? please someone, explain! this seems like WAY too much work!!!
You're not doing anything wrong. Sex isn't Olympic diving, you're not striving from ratings. You and your lover should be working together to find ways to enhance mutual satisfaction.
For now, I'd work more on foreplay and finding ways that he can pleasure you. There are plenty of women out there who are having outstanding sex lives who climax with events other than actual intercourse. Don't let Hollywood define your happiness.
I've heard most women do not orgasm during intercourse alone. Something like 70%! I always give an orgasm as part of foreplay with oral!
So, I don't think its anything you are doing wrong! : )
Try missionary. That's the easiest one and put a lil pillow under your lower back for support. If that doesn't work, uhhh, get some new friends that know what they are talking about and give better details.
The first guy is right...
Most women dont. ;D
Go ahead and play with yourself while he's inside you. Lots of women don't get the stimulation they need from intercourse alone. If the angle is an awkward reach for him, then take matters into your own hands. Any guy worth keeping will love seeing you turned on.
I have heard good things about ther Liberator pillow for propping yourself up (I too get no help whatsoever in propping myself with pillows...they just smoosh right back down and/or get in the way!) I can't bear to spend $100 on a freakin' pillow, though, but honestly, it would probably work wonders. Might want to give it a try.
When they get a generic one produced, I will buy one and let you know, lol!