Getting used to condoms?!
Question: I know condoms are great birth control and the only thing that protects against STDs, but latex freak the sh1t out of me, and even with sheepskin a wrapped up penis seems really unnatural to me. How can I get that protection without being so freaked out that there's no point in doing it anyway?
Answers: I know condoms are great birth control and the only thing that protects against STDs, but latex freak the sh1t out of me, and even with sheepskin a wrapped up penis seems really unnatural to me. How can I get that protection without being so freaked out that there's no point in doing it anyway?
I do agree, there is something very un-natural in the way a condom looks and feels on a penis and during sex. But maybe you have to come to the point where your desire for pleasure and expressing your feelings in a sexual way outweighs the issues you have with condoms.
WHy not try out some different types of condoms, have you heard of the naked condom? I think that it's thinner and is a natural colour so that it doesn't seem so obvious.
Alternatively, if you are in a relationship with a person you know and trust, and you have both been tested for stds, perhaps you could consider using an oral contraceptive, and having sex without condoms. I have been relying solely on the contraceptive pill for 2 years and have sex regularly and have not had any problems or pregnancy issues. You just have to be sure that you take the pill correctly and effectively.
Go on the pill, it wont protect you from STD's and like the any contraception it is not 100% effective, but its very reliable. You should ask your doctor about going on the pill. Much love xx
female condoms???????
If you're in a relationship with someone (rather than just having sex with the odd person every now and again) why don't you get him tested. If he's clean then and your on the pill then you can use nothing.
I think there Is a certain type of condom made for girls check those out. Good luck
I do agree, there is something very un-natural in the way a condom looks and feels on a penis and during sex. But maybe you have to come to the point where your desire for pleasure and expressing your feelings in a sexual way outweighs the issues you have with condoms.
WHy not try out some different types of condoms, have you heard of the naked condom? I think that it's thinner and is a natural colour so that it doesn't seem so obvious.
Alternatively, if you are in a relationship with a person you know and trust, and you have both been tested for stds, perhaps you could consider using an oral contraceptive, and having sex without condoms. I have been relying solely on the contraceptive pill for 2 years and have sex regularly and have not had any problems or pregnancy issues. You just have to be sure that you take the pill correctly and effectively.