Every time why?!


Question: My girlfriend is grate do not get me wrong but when it is well that time of the month for her every month over and over agin all she dose is complain about how bad it is. She also wants to hang out with me a lot then If I am going to the movies with a bunch of my guy friends on a certion night and she is at that time I have to just forget about the movie and go hang with her. and we live togeather. Is that as bad as she makes it sound. I have really no life besides at home during that time.


Answers: My girlfriend is grate do not get me wrong but when it is well that time of the month for her every month over and over agin all she dose is complain about how bad it is. She also wants to hang out with me a lot then If I am going to the movies with a bunch of my guy friends on a certion night and she is at that time I have to just forget about the movie and go hang with her. and we live togeather. Is that as bad as she makes it sound. I have really no life besides at home during that time.

i'd say for her, she needs to see her gynocologist if her pain is unbearable and her emotions are really affecting her and your relationship. as a woman, getting a period sucks and yes, sometimes it feels like a huge hook is shoved into my uterus, spun around a few times and my uterus is about to fall out--that by the way, i consider, would be one of my better days. but it's temporary. my emotional level is crazy too. i cry over the stupidest things--things that i would normally never cry over, like a tv commercial.

when it's her time of the month, be there for her--especially then, try to be the best boyfriend that you can be for her. you don't have to bend over backwards to show her you care. offer to get her something, even a glass of water helps. get a heating pad or a towel and wet it with warm water so she can place it over her abdomen.

you can definitely have life outside of your relationship. saying that you can't is selfish. guys need time to bond as do girls. your girlfriend should understand that. and if you're going out with your boys to watch a movie, tell her that you're sorry she can't come with, but that you'll take her out as soon as she's ready.

she just wants to make sure you don't go astray.

Tell you what, how about you bleed from your **** for a week each month and then come back and tell us how it makes you feel?

Have a bit of compassion, it does make a lot of women feel quite ill.

Yes it's horrible. If you've ever had a charlie horse in your leg or something just imagine it below your stomach and it feels like your insides are pinching you and there's nothing you can do to stop it and it lasts for a week. Wouldn't you be a little cranky? I think so. Seriously it kills...it feels like you're trying to pass an egg (imagine it the size of a chicken egg) through a straw...and no matter what you do that egg is going to go through that straw no matter what. Yes. Ouch. Very much so.

Pamper her the best you can and she will love you forever for it. I don't make my boyfriend surrender his social life though. Usually he just gets me stuff and tells me to get some sleep and then he says that he's gonna leave me alone so I can rest but I should call him if I need anything. You could try that. Get her a bunch of magazines or something. Or surprise her by coming home early if you do go out with the guys during her time of the month. Say it's because you miss her. Make some popcorn and watch a movie with her.

hi,
i think man she is too possesive about you.
same problem is with me also.she only wants to spend each moment with u only.while we boys wanna enjoys life too...
so both of you hv to understand and should give space to each.
and tell her clearly about your emotions and also tel that u do not wanna hurt her.and it will work soon....enjoyyyyyyyy

PMS manifests itself in many ways. In this case she seems to be using you as a crutch to get through it and by what you say it is tedious.

Use you cell and ring her often and listen to her problems then other times when you want to go to the movies or whatever just look at the number and ignore her calls until you have some free time. If she is a good friend she will get the hint your not her nursemaid.

sucks to be you dude lol just joshing you.

here's the thing, when your on your period you have extra hormones going through your body that make you act a little crazy. it makes you winy it hurts and it's very messy. it sound to me like due to the excessive hormones she gets a little insecure and maybe a little bit nervious about you going out with out her probably because she is on her period and she's not giving it up so she thinks that you are going somewhere else for it. and yes it is really as babd as she makes it out to be. IT SUCKS BIG TIME!!!





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