My 16 yr old daughter...and sex :(?!


Question: my boyfriend that lives with me has redently told me that he caught my daughter and her boyfriend gettin busy. ; } ive tlked to her about it and she swears up and down that she didnt do it. my daughter and i are very close and i dont think she would lie to me about somthing like that. she is 16 and she has been seein this guy for 2 years can you give me any advice??

my boyfriend was never really nice to my daughter....... ssooooo please help


Answers: my boyfriend that lives with me has redently told me that he caught my daughter and her boyfriend gettin busy. ; } ive tlked to her about it and she swears up and down that she didnt do it. my daughter and i are very close and i dont think she would lie to me about somthing like that. she is 16 and she has been seein this guy for 2 years can you give me any advice??

my boyfriend was never really nice to my daughter....... ssooooo please help

first of all, good job for talking to your daughter first about it. open lines of communication are the most important thing family members can share. with that said...maybe she did it, maybe she didn't. she is 16, and has been in a relationship for two years - that's quite an accomplishment at 16, and if she is in fact getting into a sexual relationship with her boyfriend, keep in mind that this is likely not some fly by night guy who will disappear tomorrow morning. in my opinion, the best thing you can do now is discuss birth control options and safe sex with your girl, and discuss family counseling with your boyfriend (you say your boyfriend was "never really nice" to your daughter - is that any way to make her live???)...

good luck!

I am a mom and I know how you feel. I would just talk to your daughter about protecting herself in case she decides to have sex or her emotions carry her over the point of no return. It is better to have her aware of things she can do to prevent pregnancy and any STD's. It sounds like you have a great relationship with her and make sure she knows that she can tell you anything and you will not judge her.

1st of all if your bf has never been nice to your daughter why have u kept him around?

anywho there is a good chance that your daughter was having sex with her bf, you need to sit down and talk to her in private so you can get a better idea of what is going on. and if she is having sex then she needs to be on the pill because she will continue no matter what you say. just talk to her and keep a close eye on her thats all you can do.

You'll have to decide for yourself who you want to believe. Talk to them both together, and see what they have to say about it.

keep ur daughter away frm her,,its better for u all

Two years and she is only 16. It would not surprise me at all if they haven't been having sex for sometime.

She just doesn't want to have you know about it.

If you don't want to be a young Grandmother, you had better make sure she is on protection ASAP.

BTW your BF did you a large favor by telling you.

i AM ALSO REALLy CLOSE TO My MOTHER BUT NOT iN A BiLLiON yEARS WiLL i EVER EVER EVER TELL HER ABOUT My LiFE STyLE iN THAT WAy...

Well you really have no choice but to believe your daughter, ESPECIALLY, if your boyfriend was never nice to her. You should really address that because that could cause BIG problems. As a child who went through that with my dads wife i believe you shouldn't be with someone unless they embrace your children. If you still have doubts about your daughter... well she is 16 and puberty has most definitely hit so at least take her to the doctor to discuss birth control and her changing body.

good luck. what does he mean (getting busy) were they having sex or kissing and hugging. no matter how close you think you are to your daughter she is not going to tell you the truth. ask her if she wants birth control. talk to her and her boyfriend together tell them the way you feel.

Leave the boyfriend out of this and go talk directly to your daughter. She needs info fast and you need to give it to her lest she ends up pregnant and trapped in a dead-end life. You should also know that when girls start having sex at a young age(like 16) their cervixes are still immature and they are much more prone to picking up STDs like HPV. Even if she hasn't had sex yet, she's probably going to start very soon. Talk to her now before you end up a full-time grandma. By the way, she still needs supervision at her age. That means keep her boyfriend out of her bedroom. You should never make it easy for teens to have sex. What she does in 2 years when she's an adult is her business, what she does as a minor under your roof is yours.

I'm close to my mum and talk to her about everything buuut I keep that from her. the other day she found an empty box of condoms and I just lied to her and promised I wouldnt have sex cos im 15...even though I am. sometimes teens just say it so save their parents feelings, cos I know im mature enough. She could be telling the truth though, only she knows. and thats perfectly acceptable for her to have sex with him after two years.. x





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