A sex Q about pain in the stomach?!


Question: ok so before i ask this Q i think i should tell you a few facts so you dont think the pain is caused by me being 14 or something. im 20 and been with my bf(21) 5years we have only been with each other. ok so heres the Q: when we have sex i can get this really bad pain that feels like my overies are going to explode what is this i have got this on off for the whole time we've been together.
Q: also my bf is (9inches, no im not tell to brag its important to the Q) when we have sex i feel pain in my vagina (cant really decribe it its just pain) this has been going on since we have been together, i thought id get used to sex (as they say it hurts at first anyway but its been 5years) ive seen obgyn's and they see not infection nada. i didnt really mention the pain tho as i embarrass easy and am very private i just cant seem to ask even tho im concerned. please help if you have any advice.
p.s. it doesnt hurt everytime but 60% of the time it can really hurt.
thank you


Answers: ok so before i ask this Q i think i should tell you a few facts so you dont think the pain is caused by me being 14 or something. im 20 and been with my bf(21) 5years we have only been with each other. ok so heres the Q: when we have sex i can get this really bad pain that feels like my overies are going to explode what is this i have got this on off for the whole time we've been together.
Q: also my bf is (9inches, no im not tell to brag its important to the Q) when we have sex i feel pain in my vagina (cant really decribe it its just pain) this has been going on since we have been together, i thought id get used to sex (as they say it hurts at first anyway but its been 5years) ive seen obgyn's and they see not infection nada. i didnt really mention the pain tho as i embarrass easy and am very private i just cant seem to ask even tho im concerned. please help if you have any advice.
p.s. it doesnt hurt everytime but 60% of the time it can really hurt.
thank you

I would suspect that your pain (both vaginal and abdominal) are related to your BF's size and perhaps the position(s) you use for intercourse. If he's thrusting deeply and/or you're in a position that might allow for him to bang into either your ovaries or cervix, it could cause this pain.

One other option would be to use some lube and try experimenting with different positions. Tell you BF that you've got this problem and try experimenting during intercourse to see what does and doesn't cause it. If you can zero in on the causes you may be able to find a solution.

Finally, I encourage you to DEFINITELY tell your doctor. Don't be embarrassed. They're there to help and I can assure you that they've heard just about everything under the sun. They don't usually shock too easily!

But remember, it's YOUR body, and unless YOU take care of it, you're going to continue to suffer. No one can help unless you go to the right source and ask. OK?

Good luck.

It could be the position you guys are doing it in. Try it a few ways next time and see which one is most comfortable. Also try being on top so you can control the depth...hope this helps!!

Cysts, probably. Those HURT! You need to go to the OB/GYN again (don't be so shy - tell them what you said here!) and they will do an ultrasound to see if the cysts are harmful or not. I have had a couple and they popped on their own, but man did they hurt in the meantime. My sister has to take medication because she gets so many so often, but is OK on the meds.

As for your boyfriend being big, well, yeah, it's going to hurt. Tell him to take it easy.

he is probably hitting your uterus. happens to me too. depends on the positions too =)





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