I cant have an orgasm!!?!
Question: ok well when i masturbate i cant ever have an orgasm ...any ideas? anything will help =] ty
Answers: ok well when i masturbate i cant ever have an orgasm ...any ideas? anything will help =] ty
You need to get to know your body. The majority of women can't orgasm by intercourse alone, so if that's what you're doing, you may never get anywhere. Try stimulating your clitoris. Because I am never going to be using my vibrator inside, I always get one of the big ones for backs. They're tougher, last longer, do the job, and I don't have to hide it. You can also try streaming water directly on your clitoris, but make sure the spout is touching you, as it may hit you way too hard if it's away from you.
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use a vibrator
I'm going to have to agree with Betsie on this one.
try laying under the faucet in the tub and position yourself just right and let it do the work.
Clitoris-erectile tissue is the muscle that is very sensitive
please see the foolowing link for the location of the tissue
http://content.revolutionhealth.com/cont...
stop worrying abt it first off, when u think abt it and stress over it, it never happens, secondly, "its not the motion in ocean that gets women going u must find ur special spot(g spot) and rub one out"
Get plenty of KY gel on your fingers and just relax, enjoy fingering yourself slowly. Have some relaxing music on in the background and imagine someone you would like to have sex with actually being with you doing to you what you are doing. Concentrate gently on your clitoris, sliding down and around, take your time to enjoy the feeling and when you start to feel more excited, make the stroking faster faster and firmer, more presssure with each stroke. Just allow yourself to let go. Sometimes it's just the letting go that's the problem. If you get naturally very lubricated and very aroused then you need to just let yourself go - nothing to be scared of - you will not pass out! Hope this helps.
Porn. I know it's not a lovely answer, but watch something that turns you on and you shouldn't have much trouble.
Also, women are much more emotionally connected to their feelings, so try not to feel guilty/ stressed/ anxious. It will only stop you from enjoying it. There's nothing wrong with a bit of self loving- in fact, it has many benefits (and it doesn't require the same amount of cleaning up as men!)