Is it okay that i havent had much sexual experience at 15 (almost 16)?!
Question: okay im 15 almost 16 and since im in high school you see all these kids making out and alot of them having sex, i feel kind of like i should have alot of experience by now. i have only pecked a couple boys on the lips. i think it will happen when i am more mature and ready. do you think this is normal or just plain weird??
Answers: okay im 15 almost 16 and since im in high school you see all these kids making out and alot of them having sex, i feel kind of like i should have alot of experience by now. i have only pecked a couple boys on the lips. i think it will happen when i am more mature and ready. do you think this is normal or just plain weird??
23 years old and never kiss a boy.
To be honest, many college football players have been chasing me because I am not easy and wild. Virgins and good girls can be hot. Sluts are not. lol :)
NORMAL!!! wait till you find the right person!
its completely normal, youll regret it if you just do it because everyone else is. wait until you find the right person and also use protection!
of course its okay!!!!!!
its wonderful...
and completely normal...
i went thoughout high school like that too!!!
keep at it
Very normal! Do what you think is right always, not what the other kids are doing. Keep your innocence for as long as you can, until you find the guy who will honor you and be tender with you.
One thing about high school is half the people who claim to be sexually active aren't really. the right time for each person varies. most people regret rushing in but very few people regret waiting
You are being safe and cautious, good for you! You don't want to have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases or worse a teenage pregnancy. Your peers, the ones you see making out are getting started way too soon and they'll face trouble as they get older for not waiting. The more you wait for that special person to love, the more special your first time will be.
OMG at that age you should only be kissing not thinking about sexual experiences. Kissing is okay. And who cares if you're not experience
Its completely normal! Even though it looks like alot of kids are having sex, they really aren't. Alot of movies portray high school age kids having sex, but there are really not alot of people who are. So many kids lie about how far they have gone, but it really doesn't matter! Keep your mind on school and friends, your time will come. Don't worry:))
My personal belief is that your first time should be with someone you really love. It should be especially special because you will remember it clearly for the rest of your life. I'm 50, I still remember it like it was yesterday, and I still love the guy I gave my virginity to. It was sweet, loving, tender, everything a girl dreams of because he loved me too. You can't ever go back and have sex for the first time. The first time is permanent. If I could go back, I would hold back as much as I did do before I had sex full on.
I think you are a very intelligent woman and are on the right path. You can always find someone to have sex with, it takes time to find the right person to lose your virginity to.
peace
i think thats wonderful that you dont have that much experience if you did you would be some kinda sex crazed young girl its better to wait for these kinda things because you might regret it later wait until you completely know your self and what you want out of a guy so when you have sex you know it will be right
GET A F'EN LIFE KID
That's 102% normal.You're 15 - you should want to still act like a 15yr old, not an adult.
I didn't have sex until I was almost 19 - and very little experience with anything else before that. Not that I couldn't have - I just didn't feel like it. Sure everyone else I knew did, but big deal.
normal, you are smart to wait, i didnt have my first kiss until i was 16, sex at the same age and that was still too young
It is normal to wait until you feel ready. There is a lot of peer pressure to appear sexually active but the truth is most people aren't sexually active at your age. Don't feel pushed into anything and take it at your own pace.
dont have sex till your married the best present you can give your husband is your virginity
It's normal a lot of kids say things that aren't true to make them seem older. I have a 15 year old Whom I know is a virgin and who have three other friends who are also virgins. There are a lot more kids NOT doing it than are. Yes a lot of teens get pregnant but a heck of a lot more don't!!!! Don't play into the hype, for one thing it's going to be your life that's forever changed. And I don't' know any one who had sex early who 10 years later didn't wish that they had waited. When you have sex at your age, You're not really doing it for you, your doing it for HIM and if he really cares about you he'll honor your decision to wait and if he doesn't than he probably wouldn't have stayed with you if something had gone wrong any way.
It's normal! And besides...you need to take things at your own pace. How and when you feel comfortable. Dont let anyone pressure you or try and make you feel bad.
So normal! I'm 15 (almost 16 also!) and haven't done more then make out with a guy. And that's abnormal for band geeks at myu school. So unless sex is whats normal, we're normal. Even if others say we're weird. I love being weird!
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I think it's weird that fifteen year olds nowadays think it's weird that they're not sexually active yet. What does that say about our culture?
No, it's not weird, it's normal. I didn't lose my virginity until I was eighteen years old.
(Edit: I'd just like to say that any woman who tells you to wait until marriage so you can give your virginity to your husband as a "present" is sick in the head. Just do what feels right in your heart.)
i had my first at 14 *this year* and i dont really think of myself as a ****, but i dont know. maybe i am. but i think you're normal.
YES! most people in hs claim to be sexually active actually arent. my opinion is to wait for true love or marriage. it varies for everyone. (:
It is completely normal, dont feel pressed to do anything you arent ready for. anyone who did start out early regrets it and wishes they would have waited. take your time there is no hurry you have you whole life. they should be jealous of you
im 16, almost 17 and have barely even kissed a guy... and im so happy anyways in that area, i think when the time comes i'll know it and this isnt the time, so just wait until you find someone who you love and trust and until it comes naturally to you, dont make yourself do anything you dont want to just because you want to appear cool or whatever :)
It's completely normal! In fact, you should be proud of yourself because you're waiting till the right moment comes.
I have the same opinion as you: sex and things related to it will come in a special moment, and we shouldn't speed things up.
Making out and kissing is completely normal, and in fact, it's something teenagers our age enjoy (I personally love it, not in a vulgar way). For me, people who have sex at our age are just desperate to feel grown up or for attention or wanting to be more popular.
TOTALLY NORMAL!
no i dont think that it is wierd at all...im 15 2 and i hvnt really had that much sexual experience either...i agree that people should wait until it is the right one... =]
your fine, i didnt get my first kiss until i was 16. its better to wait anyways. usually your first sex boy is a loser