Sex. Virgin. Pain?!


Question: HI, I am really sorry to ask this question and embarrassed so please don't make fun of me or anything.

I am a virgin, and I plan on staying on for a while, maybe even till im married but does it hurt for the girl (im a girl) like when your hymen breaks do you bleed a ton does it hurt.
Does every girl have hymen?
I don't like pain PLEASE HELP ME!


Answers: HI, I am really sorry to ask this question and embarrassed so please don't make fun of me or anything.

I am a virgin, and I plan on staying on for a while, maybe even till im married but does it hurt for the girl (im a girl) like when your hymen breaks do you bleed a ton does it hurt.
Does every girl have hymen?
I don't like pain PLEASE HELP ME!

Hi there I lost my virginity when i was 20.. I knew it would probably hurt, but I had no idea how much! It was one of the most painful experiences of my life, and it hurt not only the first time but the first FEW times.. I am actually glad that I will not have to endure that on my wedding night.

It was something special so i assumed it would be perfect and just as I imagined, but it was not, it was actually quite a bit of a disappointment. do not be expecting much your first time, that was my mistake.

hey don't be embarrassed every woman think about your brave to ask, so.... i lost mine when i was 14 i now am 21, i was a very active teen in alot of sports, my first time was painless and i didn't bleed at all so it helps if you active and try to stay relazed it is the best thing to do also use lube if you can

sex for the first time can be painful, so the more relaxed you are and the more turned on you are the less it hurts. you may bleed a little afterward, this is normal. every woman as far as i know has a hymen, but these can break on their own if you do a lot of physical activity. but most importantly, only have sex when you are ready, and it is not a bad thing to wait.

Hi, yes every girl has a hymen.
As for does sex hurt the first time, not if you are ready and take it slow. Make sure you are with a considerate partner (hopefully the love of your life) and that you are sure. You don't bleed alot, it's usually just a spot. Keep in mind if you are scared you will tense up and that'll make things more difficult for you and possibly painful. Tha't s why I say make sure it's really what you want and that you are ready. When it's right it's the most amazing thing two people can share.
Kudos to you for still being a virgin and for planning to remain so until marriage. That's a great thing. :)
Best wishes.

All girls are born with a hymen but some lose it in nonsexual activities as a child. The pain of losing a hymen is minor, comparable to a briar scratch. The first time pain is mostly from a contracted, dry vagina being abruptly forced open. If the man careful to adequately stimulate her to full arousal, the pain is probably not noticeable.

no it dident hurt my first time but some girls it does

some girls bleed some dont i only bleed a little but i know a girl that bleed for a few days my first time it didnt hurt but some say it hurts just use lots of lube the first time and it shouldnt hurt





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