When You Have Sex For The First Time Does It Hurt?!
Question: What Happens The First Time You Have Sex?
Does It Hurt? Did You Bleed? What Was The Pain Like?
Please Give Me As Much Advice & Info. Me & My Boyfriend Are Planning On Loosing Our Virginity. Thanks x
Answers: What Happens The First Time You Have Sex?
Does It Hurt? Did You Bleed? What Was The Pain Like?
Please Give Me As Much Advice & Info. Me & My Boyfriend Are Planning On Loosing Our Virginity. Thanks x
Sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't. You won't know unless you try.
Usually it hurts because a thin membrane called the hymen breaks. It partially covers your vaginal opening. But, in some girls this breaks before sex so when they have sex it doesn't hurt as much. Sometimes this bleeds, sometimes not, the amount varies by the person.
Also if you're wet and relaxed and he's slow and gentle it shouldn't hurt as much.
Yes it hurts, yes you will bleed. It's not like a waterfall of blood though so don't worry, haha. Don't be embarrassed either, it happens to ALL of us, and it's human nature. If he's not mature enough to deal with what happens when two human beings have sex, then he isn't ready.
Keep in mind however that having sex is a big deal, and most woman who lose their virginity wish they had not done it so early, or with a certain person. Be sure he's someone you can have in your life for a long time, someone you can talk to, someone you love, that loves you.
Just be smart :)
It hurts a little if the guy is big, but if he is not things go quite smoothly. I didn't bleed the first time, but I guess it is normal to. The pain is not horrible, just take things slow and don't forget the birth control.
When I lost my virginity it hurt so much worse than I expected. Whats more, it hurt maybe the first 4 or 5 times that I had sex. I didn't actually bleed though while having sex.. just a bit of blood in my discharge afterwards but nothing major really. Really the worst of it was the pain.. it will be more painful if you have NOT already broken your hymen, which I had not.
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Having sex for the first time may hurt and the woman will bleed. Sex was created by God and should be done preferably only if you love each other and better yet after marriage.
Sex actually hurt me for like the first six months I was having it. So probably will hurt the first time. Just try to relax and make sure you're comfortable. It helps if you mess around a little first to put you both in the mood. I did not bleed the first time I had sex at all -- not everyone does. I'm not sure what other advice you need for your first time.
Protect yourself. Use condoms. Make sure you're really comfortable with the person. Make sure it's not something you will look back on and regret.. as most people do. And don't do it if you feel pressured. That's about it from me.
Everyone is different, there is some discomfort and if memory serves...it's a quick piercing pain and in some cases there can be a small amount of blood but other than that it's not painful. Be safe and don't forget those condoms!!
those other answers are great- i have another suggestion too. drink plenty of water hours before so your not dehydrated- so your body can produce it's natural lubracant so it feels better- but have a commercial lube too- and plenty of protection- and since you have the "luxery" of planning- i hope you have a place picked out to do it that you won't have to "hurry up" because someone might walk in on you! try to make foreplay last as LONG as you can! you (girls!) need to be ready= wet before you get to the pentration part. like that other lady said, most of us regret it- and some of those issues are what we encountered..... i would do a bunch of sex research as well- so you know what to expect too!
yea it probably will all I know for sure is that the first time you have sex it is not as pleasing and soothing as peopel make it sound, but everyones different so I could be wrong
For me, It didnt really hurt, it was just an uncomfortable feeling, not bad enought to be pain though. When you guys get into it you probally wont even think about it. It just happens so quickly.
The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubricated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay