Who is responsible for bringing the contraception: the man or the woman?!
Question: The person with the car to drive to the drug store.
Answers: The person with the car to drive to the drug store.
Both, be prepared.
both...but the girl should be more accountable if she doesnt want to get pregnant
whichever of you doesn't want a baby or diseases
Both...just make sure it is not neither.
You are....It isn't a man-woman thing. It is a responsible thing you would do for yourself.
If the man brings it, he is showing respect for the woman.
Both. I carry condoms in an empty floss case in my purse all the time. I'm engaged, but we've used the emergency stash more than once. :) Just make sure a guy doesn't carry them in his wallet! His body heat destroys the latex.
both should be! no one wants to end up with an STD or unplanned pregnancy!
Be smart! Don't count on someone else just in case you are shagging dumbass.
i would never depend on someone else bringing protection. A lot of males think its a good idea to keep condoms in a wallet...think not. The friction and heat of the condom and the wallet weakens the condom and could cause a breakage. It would always be best if you are planning on something or think something would happen to be prepared, always look out for yourself
don't trust any one be safe, bring it
Both equally responsible!
both.
Mind you, when I started being intimate with my boyf (now hubby) I said for him to make sure he had condoms. But to be fair to me, I was already taking the pill. So, why shouldn't he be the one to get the condoms?
As we all know, neither method is 100% against pregnancy, and the Pill does nothing against STDs. Better safe than sorry. :)
The man should but if she knows she wants some than she should come prepared just in case.
It is the woman's body. She will claim this to be true when claiming the right to have sex and to have an abortion or to carry a child to term. Since she is claiming all rights to her body, then it is her responsibility what she does with it, too. If she knows that by drinking she'll get drunk, then she is responsible for getting drunk if she drinks. If she knows that by eating a lot she'll get fat, then she is the one responsible for getting fat if she eats a lot. If she allows some guy to have sex with her, then she is responsible for the consequences resulting from this, just as she is responsible for anything else she chooses to put in her body. To claim otherwise is irresponsible of her. When she wants to give some of the rights to what happens to her body to the guy, then he can share some of the responsibility.
BTW They have made female condoms for years now, so she can insert one inside of her if she doesn't like other contraceptives.
Do you blame the bartender for getting you drunk, or the baker for getting you fat? If you do then you don't know how to take responsibility for your own actions. So you shouldn't be blaming the guy for getting you pregnant or giving you an STD.
I believe they are equally responsible.
peace
Both...The Guy has to make the sperm and the Woman has to concieve.
the woman should have birth control methods sorted if she doesn't want to get pregnant. it's her body, her responsibility.
that said, I also believe the guy unless he wants to be a father should have condoms on hand at all times and use them. so he should also take responsibility.
in long-term relationships then they can decide together eg vasectomy, pill
Both are equally responsible.
the woman has the most to lose for not bringing it...
Does the man want sex? If so, buying condoms is the very least he can do.
Men sure have it easy now. Not only can they get sex from girls without taking them on one date or buying them so much as a Coke, they even feel entitled to quibble about who should pay for the contraception.