Relationship and body issue?!
Question: First off I'm an uncircumcised guy and I've heard many girls negatively react or talk about an uncircumcised penis in a negative sense (never directly at me as they didn't know I was uncircumcised). My question was if you came across an uncircumcised guy when you guys were in the moment would you turn him down or would you fool around with him and just never do it again. I like this girl and we were talking about circumcision one day as a group of which she said uncut men are gross. She then asked me if I was circumcised I told her I was and then she said that I'd better be.
I just turned 18 and I don't have to much experience but I'm pretty sure she wants to sleep with me and I want to sleep with her I just don't know if I should because I'm uncircumcised. While she is a really cool girl I can totally see her flipping out, getting up and walking out and then telling all her friends about my circumcision status. Should I advance the relationship or not? Please be brutally honest
Answers: First off I'm an uncircumcised guy and I've heard many girls negatively react or talk about an uncircumcised penis in a negative sense (never directly at me as they didn't know I was uncircumcised). My question was if you came across an uncircumcised guy when you guys were in the moment would you turn him down or would you fool around with him and just never do it again. I like this girl and we were talking about circumcision one day as a group of which she said uncut men are gross. She then asked me if I was circumcised I told her I was and then she said that I'd better be.
I just turned 18 and I don't have to much experience but I'm pretty sure she wants to sleep with me and I want to sleep with her I just don't know if I should because I'm uncircumcised. While she is a really cool girl I can totally see her flipping out, getting up and walking out and then telling all her friends about my circumcision status. Should I advance the relationship or not? Please be brutally honest
I used to be quite wary of Uncircumsized men. I thought it was gross, after all, what is the point of having a sheath of skin that does nothing? Ew! But then I made a friend who is el natural, and I learned more about it. I am much more comfortable with it now.
Because it generally isn't the norm in today's society, people are taken back by it. You should talk to this girl and be up front and honest with her. She could just be worried about how to handle you (and by you, I mean your penis!).
are you joking? where im from its a little weird if you ARE circumsized. ive never seen a circumsized penis....it doesnt make any difference
You're not a woman, so why are you posting this in Woman's health?
You want me to be brutally honest...ok 1.)shes not worth it if she cant except you for who you are...2.)she is immature if she will go around telling your private matters to all of her friends.. and 3.)honesty get with someone who you like for who she is and who likes you for who you are....and being circumcised or not wont matter.
dont even think about being with her.
girls worry about so much stuff - whether they're fat, if their boobs are too big/ too small just look at all these questions on here about the issues girls have with their body.
when you find the right person its because you like them for themselves. if shes that shallow then tell her shes fat.
if she would flip out over something like that shes really not worth being with at all.
be proud of yourself :)
someone will love you for you.
Move to the UK! Over here, virtually only Jewish and Muslim guys are circumcised. Okay, I know this doesn't help you.
The girl you're talking about sounds shallow and not worth your time or effort, in all honesty. Someone who really cares about you won't care whether you're circumcised or not. Don't risk your self-esteem when she's made it clear how she feels.
Uncircumsized penises are ugly and they sometimes stink. If she's really cares about you then she will accept it. Tell her before you actually show her your "turtleneck". No surprises.