Anal Sex with my boyfriend!?!
Question: My boyfriend has been trying to get me to try anal sex for years and although I have nothing against it, its just not something I have been very interested in. Im afraid it will feel like you have to take a big pooh and just uncomfortable. It sorta gross' me out... exit only sort of deal. However I have decided to give it a try for his sake tonight since its valentines. He is really sweet about it and isnt forcing me or anything, I told him i would try it when im ready and he really respects that decision. Do you have any advice? does it hurt? eeeek
Answers: My boyfriend has been trying to get me to try anal sex for years and although I have nothing against it, its just not something I have been very interested in. Im afraid it will feel like you have to take a big pooh and just uncomfortable. It sorta gross' me out... exit only sort of deal. However I have decided to give it a try for his sake tonight since its valentines. He is really sweet about it and isnt forcing me or anything, I told him i would try it when im ready and he really respects that decision. Do you have any advice? does it hurt? eeeek
Take your time and go slow. Use lots of lube and then use lots more. Just let him know how you are feeling. Like others have said, start with a finger and then another. Just try and relax if you can. My first time did hurt a little, but then you get more used to it. I actually enjoy it now. Lube, lube and more lube. Good luck.
Use lubrication, go slow, if it starts to hurt, stop.
All I can tell you is that this would be my dream valentines day present, and i'm very envious!
I know this is kind of gross, but I have hemerrhoids on my rear from having two kids and it does feel like i have to pooh. I don't have them bad, but I do have a few bumps. I think it is way uncomfortable, but a lot of people like it.
YESSSSSS IT HURTS...but I would recommend that you stay relaxed and get in a comfortable position. I tried it for the first time and it was PAINFUL...but after that it becomes more pleasurable. So try it---but makes sure he takes his time and use KY Jelly--it really helps.
go slowly and don't clench!!
I know it sounds funny but if you squeeze when he's pullin out...well it isnt good.
I've heard it doesnt hurt. I don't know personally. ha
just have fun and relax.
don't psyche yourself out=]
goodluck
happy valentines
Go slowly. Doing a little experimentation without him there is a good idea. Try loosening yourself up first with a little anal massage. You can put on a latex (if you're not allergic to it) glove and use some lubricant. Try putting a finger or two up there to begin with. Think horny thoughts and about how turned on your BF will be. I guarantee if you talk dirty about getting it in the *ss, he won't last long---it's very tight! Check out the links below. The first one is for solo, and the second one details about play with a partner. Be sure to use a condom!
Yes it does hurt and it does feel like you are taking a pooh. But if you get some BootyEaze, relax and enjoy.
IT HURTS LIKE A MOFO!!!!!!!! I havent tried it willingly but it one time did go in by accident....im not giving details..but it hurt so bad...i cried and it hurt for the whole next day
just dont fart
I say yes it hurts, maybe he should start with his fingers and work his way up. You should do it when your really really turned on. and lots of lube!!!
give it a try, use some lube aswell and if it hurts ... just tell him to stop and say you arent that comfertable with doin it. Also tell him not to go too deep because aparently sometimes if a man goes in too deep it sets off a nerve and you would pooh yourself, thats what happened to my friends mate one time.
Some women love it and will have multi-orgasms while having anal sex. Make sure he know what he's doing, plenty lube, and go very slow and easy if he has a large penis.
Why don't people wait until they are married to have sex? Your relationship will be over soon. Just letting you know.