Advice please??!
Question: I know this is the wrong section but i figure i might some more help.
Im 18 and I live with my granparents.My boyfriend and I decided its time for us to meet.Weve been dating two years and havnt met so its time.He is sending me money so i can come see him.The question i have how do i bring this up to my granma?I mean i can do whatever i want but i dont want to lose the place i live.I really am nervous about this whole thing.If anyone has any advice it would be very helpful.Thanks so much.
Answers: I know this is the wrong section but i figure i might some more help.
Im 18 and I live with my granparents.My boyfriend and I decided its time for us to meet.Weve been dating two years and havnt met so its time.He is sending me money so i can come see him.The question i have how do i bring this up to my granma?I mean i can do whatever i want but i dont want to lose the place i live.I really am nervous about this whole thing.If anyone has any advice it would be very helpful.Thanks so much.
you only knew this person from distance, you can't trust him yet!!! you get to know people well when you meet with them in person ,so becareful ,and he sending you money should makes you wonder why he did,no one sends money for free!! and why he don't come to see you!! if you decided to go and nothing will stop you,you better not go alone and you better let someone of your family know ,,in case something happened to you -God forbid- so they can know where to start looking for you . you seems not even sure about it otherwise you wouldn't ask for advice.
Good luck and be safe.
u havent met him? he could be a perv or a rapist dont go
he might be a perv freak! dont see him let him see u w/ some ppl their...im sorry but ur immature for 18 missy!
The only advice I have is that you are sure you know who you are going to meet before you go flying off somewhere to meet them. Meet in a place with plenty of other people.
As far as where you live goes, I don't know your grandma so I can't tell you how she will respond but here's basic script for the conversation sinse that seems to be what you need:
"Grandma, I am going somewhere for a while. Please don't throw my things out on the street after two days because I would like to return to this home to live at a later date. If I don't call in a couple days please report me missing because I am going to meet a person I have been "dating" but have never met. Okay granny, see you later...I hope."
If he wants to meet you......he should come see you in your town.........he obviously has the money. Everyone who answered is right........he is probably some sicko who has been stringing you along and waiting till you finally budge.....then you are gonna meet him and he will rape and kill you. Or keep you as his love slave.....against your will.....you better tell someone close to you that you are going if you do so someone knows when to report that you are missing.