Should i be worried about what my friends think?!
Question: I'm 17 and have met a great guy who i like, i know he likes me and we have already done sexual things together, although we haven't had sex. Some of my friends have been with their boyfriends for a while and not had sex, but i feel ready eventhough we haven't been together long at all. Is it silly for me to think that my friends will judge me if i do have sex with him? I've always wanted to make my own decisions and i really feel ready metally and physically. Please advise me!
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Answers: I'm 17 and have met a great guy who i like, i know he likes me and we have already done sexual things together, although we haven't had sex. Some of my friends have been with their boyfriends for a while and not had sex, but i feel ready eventhough we haven't been together long at all. Is it silly for me to think that my friends will judge me if i do have sex with him? I've always wanted to make my own decisions and i really feel ready metally and physically. Please advise me!
Thanks
Cassie.
First of all, it is your life. This is a step you are going to want to take at some point, so it is better to take it with someone you like and trust.
Why should you worry about what your friends think?
This is between your boyfriend and yourself and should not become the common knowledge of others. Keep it to yourselves, it's private. Don't tell them. It's none of their business, and then you won't have to worry about what they think.
you need to do what feels comfortable and don't worry about what your friends think. we all develop at different times in life.
Hi,
You should not be worried about what your friends think. Do what ever you feel good for you.
Enjoy Life
Never mind what your friends think. You, and only you, are the hardest judge of yourself. Just please remember, the gift of your body to another is priceless. Choose wisely. As my 16-year-old niece has on her myspace page, "Wait for the boy who would do anything to be your everything."
ps. And just how would your friends know if you did choose to have sex with him?
do wat you wanna do, ur friends dont take over your life's everything...... you gotta listen to urself for making decision for example, having sex
You should not care what they think
BUT
You should not have sex with someone you barely know. You've only been texting him for a few weeks, and only "officially" dating for four days.
Save your virginity for another time.
wait just wait its always the best thing to do
Why worry about your friends??? Its your own life..so do anything that makes you comfortable and happy....Run your own life girl.....