Sleeping over at his?!


Question: Right, so he's asked me to sleep over and i know that he knows im not completley ready for sex, as we've talked about it, but its my parents that have the problem now. They don't think i should as it's too soon, i'm pretty sure that they just think i'm going to have sex with him, which i'm not yet. I'm 17 and what i really want to know is should i lie to my parents about staying over and say i'm at my friends? Or would it be easier in the long run to wait for a while until my parents allow it?

Advise would be really helpful.


Answers: Right, so he's asked me to sleep over and i know that he knows im not completley ready for sex, as we've talked about it, but its my parents that have the problem now. They don't think i should as it's too soon, i'm pretty sure that they just think i'm going to have sex with him, which i'm not yet. I'm 17 and what i really want to know is should i lie to my parents about staying over and say i'm at my friends? Or would it be easier in the long run to wait for a while until my parents allow it?

Advise would be really helpful.

Men, not all men, but some have only sex on the brain. If you sleep over at his house ecspecially if you aren't ready for a sexual relationship, shouldn't be done because he could change his mind on you and decide he wants it, and because you are there this state of mind would make him think that he is getting sex. Kudos to you for not being ready, it should be with someone special and who you care about alot. As for the parents situation, they are only trying to do what they think is right for you and whether you think so now or not you will see that that is there intention, NOT to control you! don't lie to them because that shows immaturity, and if you are too immature to wait on your parents to LET you go then you shouldn't be having a co-ed sleep over anyway. Not trying to be mean, listen to your parents though, you'll come to realize that more times than not they are right and you will thank them someday for this wisdom. GOOD LUCK!

It is advisable to wait till parents agree and more so when you are ready to have sex. When you sleep over with him it will be difficult to avoid sex.

I understand your parent's concern. They understand that with a girl and a boy sometimes emotions and hormones just get out of hand and something could happen that you might regret.Don't lie to your parents. They love you and want what's best for you. This is one time when you should listen to them and wait.

omg I can't believe you still tell your parents everything at that age.

You should NEVER discuss your sex life with your parents unless it's like something important.





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