Masturbating pt.2?!
Question: I don't know why but i don't feel "right" when i try to masturbate. I don't know what to and i kinda touch myself but i don't enjoy it. Is something wrong with me? It just doesn't feel right. Is that bad?
Answers: I don't know why but i don't feel "right" when i try to masturbate. I don't know what to and i kinda touch myself but i don't enjoy it. Is something wrong with me? It just doesn't feel right. Is that bad?
No, not at all. You just have to figure out what works best for you. If your just using your hands, you might want to consider picking up a small viborator (or whatever works for your choice) and that may help as well.
Or maybe you want to try fantasizing...whether it's about a crush in your life, a lover, a celebrity or your biggest fantasy...whatever it is, that can help as well. My belief (don't be mad people, it's just my belief) is that with woman is more a matter of MIND OVER matter. So if you fantasize it may help to put you in the mood quickly.
Also, (i don't know if I'm going to far here) but some people are visual leaners and would rather watch porn to put them in the mood. I don't know how you personally feel on that, but it could help as well!
And don't forget some people just don't enjoy masturbating and that's fine as well. It's not for everyone!!
But if you really want to give it a go, remember the best thing is to just relax and go with the flow. It'll work out!
It took me a while to realize what I liked and what I didn't but once I got it, I never had a problem ever again! LOL
Good luck hehehe :)
PS - There is a link in here for some tips. Promise it's not a porn website! lol
maybe your doing it wrong.
lol idk.
yes enjoy it
just grabbitt and stroke it baby. j/k.
i have no answer for you sorry.
just relax.
you have to be in the mood, think of a guy you really like or something
-Anthony
yes.
i think that you should get checked out by a doctor.
this may be a rare case of Stacloucarus that can result in death.
you cant just randomly touch yourself to masturbate
you need to turn yourself on by like fantasizng or reading erotic stories online
or cybering
One word, Lube.
If you go down to the waterfront, you can help the elderly put bait on their fish hooks. If you do well then you can be promoted to a Master Baiter...
not all women enjoy it. or maybe you need a few more attempts.
well then dont waste ur time lol
Well I get a pretty big kick out of it and things seem to flow very naturally when I reach downstairs, but then, I'm a guy.
Probably not quite the same.
buy a dildo and some vasoline, then down 2 shots of vodka.
If you aren't in the mood, it won't feel good. Try fantasizing about a guy you like or read dirty novels. It is not bad that you don't enjoy it, not all people do. Nothing is wrong with you, maybe you just aren't comfortable enough with yourself in order to be able to enjoy it. Maybe you haven't found the good spot..
some people don't even try masturbating until after they've had sex with another person. maybe you should have been in that category.
no
i think its normal.
I can't feel anything when i masterbate, but when my boyfriend and I do stuff, it feels amazing,
You're problably just not good at it yet, neither am i ahah youre not alone
You probably just haven't figured out what you like yet. Try a few different things. There are probably some websites that can get you started. I'm not trying to be vulgar, but start with only your fingers touching your clitoris and moving around. You may need some sort of lubrication to make it gentler. You may also want to visualize something that may "make your engine rev" so to speak. You may have to touch yourself for awhile before you start to feel anything. I wouldn't recommend trying penetration at first. As you continue touching your clitoris, eventually it will start to swell and you may begin to "self-lubricate." Eventually, you will be able to figure out what you enjoy the most. Hope that helps.
do u no what masterbating is?? u dont just touch your self! hahaa well im not gunna telll u how to masterbate bum umm ok lol o yes and that disease that guy said that is a real disese u may have it but it does NOT result in death you just have to get a 6' neddle up you vagina to fill your "cherry" hahahahahahahahahaha
EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT..if masterbating doesn't feel good to you..you don't HAVE to do it...there isnt' a rule! if you WANT to do it...you just have to try different things...until you find what works for you!
Get a friend to help you